by Sexyrabbit on September 1st, 2008

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Would you rather do things that make your s/o happy or yourself happy?

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  • by Grammy Robin on September 2nd, 2008

    Grammy Robin

    I wish I could make mine happy. His unhappiness is beginning to rub off on me.

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  • by Penal Colony is wicked marrying Andy on September 2nd, 2008

    Penal Colony is wicked marrying Andy

    Making my S/O happy typically DOES make me happy. So ideally, I can kill both of those birds with one stone.

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  • by fuckyou on September 2nd, 2008

    fuckyou

    I make myself happy first. then I make my s/o happy. If i'm not happy how can I make someone else happy? Do you smell what I'm steppin' on?

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  • by B.fife My honesty makes people angry... on September 2nd, 2008

    B.fife My honesty makes people angry...

    I always date Women so I have learned that the only way I get to be happy is if my SO is happy...Or to put it another way..."If Momma ain't happy then nobody gets to be happy"...

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  • by Keeping it real on September 2nd, 2008

    Keeping it real

    I would rather make my S/O happy

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  • by Larmes and the ... butterfly of hope .. on September 2nd, 2008

    Larmes and the ... butterfly of hope ..

    with THIS man, I love to make him happy , because honestly whenever he smiles I feel so happy myself.

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  • by Jen-Jen on September 3rd, 2008

    Jen-Jen

    I don't have an s/o, but I have spent my whole live trying to make him happy, and today I realize that I can't, I don't want to, nor do I want to carry that responsibility ~ I can only make me happy, and that's what I'm working on today.

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  • by Anonymous on September 2nd, 2008

    Anonymous

    Always make her happy because that makes me happy but for a productive marriage we try to do things that will make 'us' happy.

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  • by Have A Smurfy Day on September 2nd, 2008

    Have A Smurfy Day

    The things that make me happy usually make my S/O happy.

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  • by Candygirl on September 2nd, 2008

    Candygirl

    In the beginning I always want to do things to make my s/o happy then after awhile I want him to make me happy. OMG I sound like a man don't I?

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  • by DueceGod - doGeceuD on March 14th, 2009

    DueceGod - doGeceuD

    PSH! her of coarse, as long as i can keep her happy, im happy.

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  • by Karkhan on March 14th, 2009

    Karkhan

    Everytime I read s/o, I think about the girl I want to be my s/o, and I'll continue with that=)

    I would do anything to make her happy. Anything. It's more important than anything else I know of.

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  • by mrrw on March 14th, 2009

    mrrw

    When Karen is happy, I'm happy.

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  • by anddeb on February 27th, 2009

    anddeb

    I love making him happy. That is what makes me happy, so by making him happy, I achieve both.

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  • by Ditto on February 27th, 2009

    Ditto

    If the relationship is healthy making my s/o happy would also make me happy. So, making the s/o happy takes it.

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  • by DeadBlix on February 27th, 2009

    DeadBlix

    I try to make decisions that make both of us happy, usually achieved by making decisions together.

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  • by Mountain Momma on February 27th, 2009

    Mountain Momma

    Its important to do things that you both enjoy, give or take a little at times.

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  • by Anonymous on February 26th, 2009

    Anonymous

    I would much rather do thing that make my significant other happy. I can worry about myself later. And I would do the same for most of my friends.

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  • by Kelley on September 4th, 2008

    Kelley

    According to a recent survey, making your spouse happy makes you happy but if you aren't married, it doesn't work the same.
    http://www.body1.com/news/index.cfm/1/331

    Seems to work for me!

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  • by LeeLee Chickybabe Avenger SLAB on September 3rd, 2008

    LeeLee Chickybabe Avenger SLAB

    My eagerness to please my s/o is often my downfall.
    I'm trying to focus on me now.
    I know I deserve it.

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  • by Monotonous on September 3rd, 2008

    Monotonous

    as hard as my ego would try to fight for doing things for myself, i'd ultimately rather please my s/o. it always makes me happy to see her happy.

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  • by Ms.A on September 3rd, 2008

    Ms.A

    I do things that make us both happy.I'm not into the martyr thing ;)

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  • by paradox4 questions questions on September 3rd, 2008

    paradox4 questions questions

    I agree with Lissette. If my 'happy cup' is empty, then I've got nothing left over to try and make him (or anyone else) happy. I make me happy first...usually sharing things with him, though.

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  • by mr. Bill on September 2nd, 2008

    mr. Bill

    If I were to make someone else happy then it would naturally make me happy. Mr Bill

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  • by Galeanda on September 2nd, 2008

    Galeanda

    I have always tried to make him happy and he's always made me happy, so it works out very well:-)

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  • by sassie on September 2nd, 2008

    sassie

    I was all about making my s/o happy... until one day I realized that he never does that for me!! Life revolved around him, even after we had our son!!! Now I focus my life around my son and myself only!!! as long as we are happy my life is perfect!!

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  • by Anonymous on September 2nd, 2008

    Anonymous

    I've always been one to put others first. It's pretty typical of me. I don't need much. That said, If my s/o can't apparently made happy, trying too hard to make it happen will get a little old...

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  • by Meg on September 2nd, 2008

    Meg

    I used to make my S/O happy, but after I broke up I realized I should have made myself happy first...

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  • by Simply99 -- Not a fan favorite. on September 2nd, 2008

    Simply99 -- Not a fan favorite.

    Going to the baseball games make me happy, my wife ridding me for an evening makes her happy. Win/win!!

    Man, could you believe the baseball season is over already? {sigh}

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  • by abril on March 15th, 2009

    abril

    my sun rises every morning because of him. and yes, i want to give him his happiness even if it's not me.

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  • by Lazs Mouse on March 15th, 2009

    Lazs Mouse

    My Laz makes a point of doing things to make me happy, and I do the same!!! I am a lucky Mouse indeed to have found such a wonderful man!

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  • by Ryan Smith on March 15th, 2009

    Ryan Smith

    I'd rather make myself happy.

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  • by Blackfire on March 15th, 2009

    Blackfire

    Make them happy. It's too hard to make me happy.

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