Would you rather do things that make your s/o happy or yourself happy?
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Sexyrabbit
ANSWERS: 33
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with THIS man, I love to make him happy , because honestly whenever he smiles I feel so happy myself.
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I would rather make my S/O happy
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I always date Women so I have learned that the only way I get to be happy is if my SO is happy...Or to put it another way..."If Momma ain't happy then nobody gets to be happy"...
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I make myself happy first. then I make my s/o happy. If i'm not happy how can I make someone else happy? Do you smell what I'm steppin' on?
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I wish I could make mine happy. His unhappiness is beginning to rub off on me.
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In the beginning I always want to do things to make my s/o happy then after awhile I want him to make me happy. OMG I sound like a man don't I?
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Making my S/O happy typically DOES make me happy. So ideally, I can kill both of those birds with one stone.
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The things that make me happy usually make my S/O happy.
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Going to the baseball games make me happy, my wife ridding me for an evening makes her happy. Win/win!! Man, could you believe the baseball season is over already? {sigh}
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Always make her happy because that makes me happy but for a productive marriage we try to do things that will make 'us' happy.
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I used to make my S/O happy, but after I broke up I realized I should have made myself happy first...
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I've always been one to put others first. It's pretty typical of me. I don't need much. That said, If my s/o can't apparently made happy, trying too hard to make it happen will get a little old...
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I was all about making my s/o happy... until one day I realized that he never does that for me!! Life revolved around him, even after we had our son!!! Now I focus my life around my son and myself only!!! as long as we are happy my life is perfect!!
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I have always tried to make him happy and he's always made me happy, so it works out very well:-)
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If I were to make someone else happy then it would naturally make me happy. Mr Bill
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I agree with Lissette. If my 'happy cup' is empty, then I've got nothing left over to try and make him (or anyone else) happy. I make me happy first...usually sharing things with him, though.
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I do things that make us both happy.I'm not into the martyr thing ;)
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as hard as my ego would try to fight for doing things for myself, i'd ultimately rather please my s/o. it always makes me happy to see her happy.
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My eagerness to please my s/o is often my downfall. I'm trying to focus on me now. I know I deserve it.
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I don't have an s/o, but I have spent my whole live trying to make him happy, and today I realize that I can't, I don't want to, nor do I want to carry that responsibility ~ I can only make me happy, and that's what I'm working on today.
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According to a recent survey, making your spouse happy makes you happy but if you aren't married, it doesn't work the same. http://www.body1.com/news/index.cfm/1/331 Seems to work for me!
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I would much rather do thing that make my significant other happy. I can worry about myself later. And I would do the same for most of my friends.
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Its important to do things that you both enjoy, give or take a little at times.
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I try to make decisions that make both of us happy, usually achieved by making decisions together.
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If the relationship is healthy making my s/o happy would also make me happy. So, making the s/o happy takes it.
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I love making him happy. That is what makes me happy, so by making him happy, I achieve both.
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When Karen is happy, I'm happy.
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Everytime I read s/o, I think about the girl I want to be my s/o, and I'll continue with that=) I would do anything to make her happy. Anything. It's more important than anything else I know of.
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PSH! her of coarse, as long as i can keep her happy, im happy.
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Make them happy. It's too hard to make me happy.
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my sun rises every morning because of him. and yes, i want to give him his happiness even if it's not me.
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My Laz makes a point of doing things to make me happy, and I do the same!!! I am a lucky Mouse indeed to have found such a wonderful man!
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I'd rather make myself happy.
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