Well, Anon, if you are having these thoughts with a man doing the deeds, then I would have to say that you at the very least have a bi-sexual streak running through you. But if your thoughts of sucking cock and having it rammed in your ass are completely centered around a woman providing this servce to you, then, no... you are not gay. Either way, if it's what you enjoy, go for it.

Well, it doesn't nessecarily mean you are gay. Perhaps you are bi-sexual. Either way, its not a bad thing. I went to spend the weekend with a guy friend and his wife. He had wanted to sleep with me for a while, but I was concerned because he is married. But I went just to hang out. After their kids went to bed, SHE begged me to sleep with BOTH of them. The first night I was too nervous, but the second night I had a few drinks to relax and just went with it. It was AMAZING! I am still not sold on the idea of eating pussy, but it was definately an awesome experience. Hands and mouths were everywhere, I have never had such a fulfilling sexual experience in my life. Not sure now whether I would be concidered bi-sexual, because I would never actively persue a woman, and I wouldn't do anything with a woman alone, only if a guy is there as a threesome, but I am so glad I tried it. That may be the way to go for you to experiment. Find a couple on a dating website(iwantu.com usually has postings like that) with a bi guy, or maybe you know one, and try it out. (Couples like this are more common than you would think.) There is so much less pressure this way, with the same sex thing when you just aren't sure. That way you can start out concentrating on the woman, and work your way to the guy as you get more comfortable. I know I am speaking from a female viewpoint, but there is nothing like the feeling of a hard cock buried in your bum. I am told it is even better for guys because the prostate is located there. But whatever you decide, just do what feels right to YOU. If it gets to anal, just make sure you are relaxed, make sure he takes his time and you use plenty of lube. Have him use fingers or toys to stretch you a bit first. If you take time, and do it right it is unbelievably good.