Are pronography and cheating in a marriage related?
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starrrgazer
ANSWERS: 13
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I think so. Porn is no diffent than physical touching of another person..men or women just use it as a HARMLESS excuse to justify saying "I am not happy being with just you or the way you look".
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if your partner fulfilling your needs why would you want it?
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No. Not unless you are one of those people who consider morning wood to be a sign of impure thoughts. Many married/committed couples enjoy watching pornography together as a form of foreplay. EDIT - 2208 EDT 28 AUG 08 - ADDENDUM I notice a SERIOUS gender divide on this issue. Many women seem to be (at least publicly) vehemently opposed to porn. Some seem to also be against us guys having hobbies that may divert our attentions from those that are supposed to be our sole reason for living, the entire focus on our lives. Sometimes us guys need a break.
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As closely related as looking at a cow and eating a steak.
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Pornography has it's place, but it is certainly not anything to do with cheating. My girl and I sometimes watch it together, but I also have been known to watch it on my own (I prefer it with her tho).
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When my boyfriend looks at porn, i get mad. Why would he need to look at some other girls naked body when mine is right in front of him all the time? i think it just makes women feel like they are not enough for their man if the man chooses to want to look at other girls like that. because i'm sorry but you all know it causes a slight if not quite a bit of an arousal!!
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Porn can lead to other problems as well: see this website on how a serial killer says he started his crime spree after he started reading porn: . http://www.pureintimacy.org/gr/intimacy/understanding/a0000082.cfm . Ted Bundy, an infamous serial killer, granted an interview to psychologist James Dobson just before he was executed on January 24, 1989. In that interview, he described the agony of his addiction to pornography. Bundy goes back to his roots, explaining the development of his compulsive behavior. He reveals his addiction to hard-core pornography and how it fueled the terrible crimes he committed.
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I use to get mad and upset when my husband watched porn. But now I watch it just as much as he does with him I find it kinda funny sometimes just look there are woman in this world who have alot of flaws about there bodys (like myself)that they don't and these girls in porn have those same flaws but have every other woman does and can perform infront of a camera and disregard them like they are nothing. There are fat porn stars, there are skinny, some with crooked teeth there ho-ho's my not be what they want them to look like but they still have a cofidence in themselves. I hear people say that porn stars and strippers have no respect for themselves but they do have respect for themselves. They just like to have sex. Think about it, But I don't consider it cheating if he watches it anymore, if he wants to watch one and take a bottle of lotion and use it on himself then so be it I know where he is at evernight and who he make love to everynight.
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No. Porn = a sexual stimulus. You see something sexual and you feel sexually aroused. THAT IS NORMAL. Porn does not equal cheating.
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Depends on your relationship rules....for me unless there is physical contact it's not cheating.
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no
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From a Christian perspective, looking at porn is cheating.
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Nope.
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