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i have the same exact problem right now. i wish i could help you but i don't even know the answer myself!
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you have to start out as friends so dont make him feel pushed into anything. let him know you like him but dont want to push him into something he is not ready for. Let it grow into the relationship you want and ALWAYS be honest and dont play head games.
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Well, I would suggest asking him out just as friends, then see what happens. I think it is fair to not commit to someone if you are not ready, but if he wants the sex, but no commitment, the "reason", is just an excuse to me, for if he was hurt by women in the past that bad, he would not want the emotional feelings that come with sex either, not just the commitment. Just my opinion!
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When someone has been hurt repeatedly, they tend to be very apprensive to jump back into the dating scene. Maybe start out casually asking him if he'd like to go for a cup of coffee or a drink, "no strings attached." Keep it casual like friends would. You certainly dont want scare him off with the "relationship" word. You cannot make him want to go out with you, but start off as friends first and see if there are any possibilites in time. DONT push or he will run! Good Luck
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