Nothing to lose (except the big V)-Enjoy !

No, Internet dating is not for everyone. You need to join a club or a group and meet people face to face. Are you proud that you are a virgin?

I didnt like meeting people in nite clubs as theres a lot of people who were drunk and thats not what i waned. I joined an online site and met a couple of people who i did see more than once, they were lovely but not for me! as long as you are safe about it theres no harm! good luck!xx

I met the love of my life on the internet. But it definitely isn't for everyone. And you must be VERY careful! Just be honest!

if u want to. i think there are better ways to meet ppl such as school/common interest groups [like sports ] its more personal and the right person will come dont rush

I actually say YES! Meeting people online is fun. And it's not for LOSERS. Like anybody says. I think if your having trouble and you haven't had luck anywhere else, than go for it! I know many people who have found love online.

If it weren't for an extremely bad one-night stand when I was 28, I'd be the proverbial 40-year old virgin. My advice is DON'T. Online dating (and dating in general) is all about lying. It's based on false pretences and stereotypes. If you have to lie to get a date, it's not worth it.

You could do that, but I don't think you need to. You just need to go out to places where guys are. Ex: If you read a lot, you could go to Starbucks to read. Have a cup of coffee and read your book. I have met a lot of girls at Starbucks. Just try to do some of the things you do at home at other places. If you make it known that you are looking, then guys will notice and come and talk to you.

if you'd like to. i think those can be good. try a church or a class or something you enjoy where people are involved, if you're skeptical.

If you want. People are people everywhere. It doesn't matter whether they come from the internet or not. I suggest finding someone who also isn't outgoing though. An outgoing person with a loner type person isn't usually a good match for very long.

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