A fun night out with your friends. Don't think about your heart while out.

The best answer to give, would be that there isn't any easy or good cure for a broken heart. It takes time, sleep, and someone to talk to. I would suggest finding the person you trust the most, whoever it may be, and let everything out. All your fears, what you think went wrong, and ask them how to make it better. Since they will have known you personally, they should have the best answer for you. I would spend some time pampering yourself, and taking time to learn more about yourself from this experience. Treat yourself to things you enjoy doing, whether it be hanging out with friends, or even reading a book. It won't be easy but it must be done to patch your broken heart. hope this helps.

Just cry. It is the best remedy for a broken heart. Just cry your butt off. Trust me, it'll work. Then hang out with your friends, have some fun and forget about what made you break your heart. You'll get over it sometime.

my bf just broke up with me just now, just cry n listen to music. everything will get better for the both of us, in time broken hearts do heal. good luck

It takes time, especially if you had a long relationship and really loved that person. Face it, you will never forget this person. you just have to try to continue your life, around their memory. Many humans go through this everyday. its not new and it still hurts. Finding a replacement is the order of the day. it will be hard, but it can happen. Start looking. time now to hide all the old photos, cards, and memories of the past.

Time heals all wounds. If, this was a long term relationship it will take more time.You are not alone, if that gives you any comfort, I am going through the same thing. The best way, I have found in these times, is to keep busy in what you are doing - work ,study, concentrate on bettering yourself- exercise - do not dwell on would have - should have and just let go of the down thoughts and think positive that you are worthy of love.

Keeping the heart open despite the pain. Embracing the pain and loss as you would joy and love. Coming out of the heart protracts the healing process. Time to come to terms with what has happened. No contact with the person who "broke your heart" for a minimum of 6-12 months. Abstention from all forms of sexual activity for a time will accelerate the healing process, as the sexual attraction / desire that was part of the old relationship is dissolved.

There is no cure. Endurance. You have to endure the pain. Time is really the healer but no one likes to here a cliche' Is a long distance relationship out of the question?

Endurance man. Lets see, theres other things to drown your sorrow but it'll only mask the pain. Hang in there Brother---more pts

The pain is so bad that you triple clicked. There is no instantaneous cure. Whats the word I've been saying? If it's over then mourn the loss. Don't try to bury it. People would say STAY BUSY!!!!! well I was mourning her through all the busy times so----- all you can do is endure it.

i wish there was a anti love potion, i gave everything for her and all she gave me was the door why is that becouse her mom she said thing that were not tru or should be even messed with but what do you expact from a person who has a heart that relias om money she so you tell me what is the remady for this she dummped me picked me upi and think i dont know she is going to dumo me again and the love put me back in her arms nowing this

I think...just have more fun..goin out clubbing with friends...movie...try not to think about it...forget about the pain that made you break your heart...focus on your studies or working if you are on it...try to socialise more with your friends...make sure you stay away from being alone...try to be with someone who do you think can makes you laugh and smile each day of your life...overall..pray hard and stay blessed.

ice-cream

My gal left me after 3 years of relation...the best cure..is to keep her ALIVE....in your mind ...heart...where ever possible..!!

After my divorce I moved to Vegas for awhile, worked in the casino and drank a lot of rum. It truly helped me through the most brutal part of the divorce and when I left Vegas 8 months later I was ready to take up a normal life again. Maybe that is extreme for some, but a little rum and listening to the Blues can actually help sometimes.

A powerful adhesive made out of sticky, sticky vengeance.

I had my heart broken in the worst possible way, i was pregant and dumped only to find out he had been sleeping with my friend, laughing at me behind my back and telling everyone lies..which they all believed. All my friends walked out on me because of what a mess i was- they couldnt deal with it so they stayed away. I went through a pregnancy as well as nursing a broken heart...it was horrendus, my life changed in an instant and i became a virtual recluse, i never went out-no one ever came round...but eventually bit by bit i picked myself up, my body went into a kind of healing and when i had my son, things were tough but i knew i had to move on...its 3 years gone now and im totally over it, i still find it hard to trust men, ive only had one 4 month relationship in the past 3 years but that ended due to trust issues...i still dont see my ex and i dont see my friends either. Time does heal, no matter what situation you find yourself in...it will seem like hell...but it does get better.

Go do something nice for someone you don't know so you get nothing back in return except maybe a thank you and you will feel sooooo good you will want to do it again...and you will smile when you thought you were to sad to do it ever again.

Call up your best friend and go on a trip. Not necessarily a party trip, but somewhere you two have always wanted and talked about going. Hey, what about that cruise to the Mediterranean? Chances are you'll meet some great people, see awesome sights, and be so thrilled you won't have time to think of him/her. If that's too much, hey how about camping at the closest beach?

Reconciliation.

Time.

Seems to me that the only thing that will heal a broken heart is time! Good luck!

That saying time heals all wounds it's true to a certain degree.If you apply that to there is a lot of fish in the sea.There is someone else out there for every one if it didnt work out then you have to move on and find the one if you are ready to start dateing again.I wouldn't advise going to a bar or a night club that is if you want a real relationship without b.s. You will find the one any where but those singles hangouts. You have to be socal and get to talk with someone of intrest.Before I got married I was a flirt/friendly naturaly and I didn't relize it.You have to relize what you want and go for it.I was with someone for 5 years and they cheated on me I herd there cell phone dialed in the house and answered and herd.I am allways faithful 2 myself and others.They told me to move on with my life so I did and found my soulmate and have been Happly married for 5 years.I never think any thing about the other person they are in the past and I dont care.The person was in shock I found someone so fast. I know what I want and I love me

rubbing some vagisil on it and manning up

Time and hanging out with friends.

best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

pray. you wont get your answer in a day but youll start to feel a change. anger diminishes, you feel forgiveness, your heart feels repaired, and you start to feel solid and whole again. it takes time but the results are amazing. take each day at a time and just vent to God. He knows you can't do this on your own. and to be honest, nobody cares. people will be there for you to listen but they can't feel what you feel so they just sympathize. God feels it and he doesn't want to so pray to Him and Mary and youll be better in no time. Goodluck, I'll pray for you.

Me

Listening To Music And Writing Down Whatever Is Going Thru Your Head- Try Peotry To Deal With It.. Im not so sure about the time heals all wounds because in many ways it can re open them too... It is impossible to say but there is no cure for a broken heart, only good friends to cover the holes that have over crowded our lives. But with these good friends comes better times and memories and eventually your heart will repair itself, as long as it may take but in the end it is worth it but at the same time you have to want it to repair, dwelling on what was or hoping for what had been to re occur will only make it worse. On the other hand, who is to say if a heart will ever mend, maybe the significant other was the one for us, we just have to learn to put up with it and move on to second best as we can't live our lives in the past! (but please dont resort to taking your live or someone elses, there are worst things then a broken heart, as horrible as they are, and trust me, i do know!)

getting out with friends or family, being alone will not help, too many things will be on your mind. dont expect to fell better in a day or a week this will take time. be around people who can make you smile. :) AB is always good :)

Time.

Lots of beer!

Spending quality time with the people who really matter - family and friends.

sorry i didnt realise that you had lost someone. very sorry for your loss. i dont think you can ever get over losing someone i havent and it was 5 years ago. you just have to remember the good times and the special things you shared you never have to finish mourning for her keep her in your heart always but let other people in to. im not saying move on and meet someone else if you are anything like me you keep to your self if asked to go out their is always an excuse do you really think she would want you to do that. (only you can answer that) keep in touch:)

I'm sorry for your loss. It really sounds like you need to talk to a therapist. If you can't see yourself moving forward through the pain your dealing w/. Then you aren't confronting the reality of the situation. A theapist might be able to help give you the tools you need to heal yourself. Good luck keep your head up.

i had a 3 year relationship... well it did not work out that well.. she got pregnant but the baby was weak.. after that ive been taking drugs and gumbled.. she left me asap.. it really hurts because she left me in the rain,... but after that... i enrolled in a culinary school here in manila phils. i really like cooking so it helped me to move on a little bit,.. it's been 4 months and i haven't spoke to her or see her... my question is why is it when i'm alone... i always think of her... and message her in the friendster... and it seems like i'm starting again and again by moving on,... sometimes i think... it's really hard to move on because our breakup was all my fault and i can't admit it... help me guys... please...

The best cure for a broken heart is to remember the wonderful times you were fortunate enough to share enjoy with the other person. Keep active in your mind only the good times. Know that like all wounds, your heart will heal also with time. Do as many things you can do that make you laugh and feel good. Spend more time with supportive friends and family members. Remember that this too shall pass.

I'd say time....Good luck, I hope you feel better soon...

Doing something for someone else. Focusing on others, not you. That will get you out of your self-involved rut and force you to think of something else and before you know it, you'll be cured and you will have helped others at the same time. Happy Friday! :)

Time and forgiveness.

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Good and uplifting music that makes you feel good and some good chocolate

let go... most of the people i know find it hard to mend their heart becoz they cant seem to let go of the person.. stop telling yourself that you should forget the person and your memories.. coz trust me, you wouldnt! instead.. try to learn from it... see how it have made you stronger and wiser,... stop regretting... instead, be happy.. that though your heart got broken,,, at least.. for once... someone had made it whole and complete.... and.. just think... that if you were happy w/ the wrong one.. how much more when the right one come along?.... feel the pain... until it hurts no more... and maybe.. just maybe.. when the right one comes along.. youll realize that your heart didn't got broken at all!

A replacement. It's not broke just soared and it will heal. Trust me. The saying that it takes one to get over one is true and also time heals all wounds.

Booze

Good friends choclate dvd and a bottle of coke :)

Prayer, if you believe in it.

A new but PURE HEART

Rebound scoring!!!:) No seriously???Great friends who will listen to you.....and the people who give advice on Answerbag lol :)

Sex.

Faith in yourself.

Time and friends.

a spoon full of ice cream and a box of fat free chocolate makes everything seem less bittersweet.

The best cure for a broken heart is: -give yourself time and be strong. -throw everything related to him, anything that reminds you of him.. maybe even delete his phone number or change your phone number. -cry when you're sad it will relieve you. -look around you at all the others that really love you and care about you.A person who breaks your heart is not worth of spending 1 second with you. You deserve the best soul mate that truly cares about your feelings. -look around and you will see all the other people interested in getting a chance with you.. give them a chance. However, this time avoid the mistakes you did in your past relationship. -Don't give this new person too much attention at once so he won't loose interest in you. -keep him/her missing you, anxious to see you and to know more about you. -As soon as you feel that this person hasn't treat you right even once, leave him/her before its too late, and get to know other people. -hang out with you're friends, go out, watch movies, listen to crazy music, eat lots of chocolate and ice cream -love with you're brain first not with your heart. Think logically: "will this relationship truly work?", maybe even seek the closest people to you for advice. -Be with a person that loves you more than you love him. -write down all your sadness and anger on paper, burn it after you've said everything you wanted. (It feels great btw :) -Don't try to avoid the person that broke you're heart, face him instead!! Be strong show him that you are a very unique person.. let him regret what they've done. - Look at you're best when they're around, laugh like there's no tomorrow, call all your friends when he is around, make plans with them to go out..Act as happy as u can ever be!! This will teach the heart breaker a BIG lesson. As a result, you will feel relieved.. -Finally, know what a valuable person and worthy person you are because if you don't value yourself people wont value you.. and always remember you are the best and there's no one better than you. In the end, no matter what you will find the love of your life, if not this year then next year. BE PATIENT! -Life is short and it's not worth to waste any second of it on anger and sadness because in the end,even the worst people find love and comfort. Have fun, praise all the seconds you're living.

time

Surround yourself with friends. They should take your mind off things for a while. Also take up a new hobbie or take a home learning course ( but make sure u pass ) It'll make you feel better about your self if u acheive something whilst ur still hurting and the hurt will fade eventually u just gta be strong.

Getting out there and helping others. Volunteer, do charity work, help friends with projects, just don't focus on yourself. Give to others and you will get back happiness, satisfaction and heal.

Bottom line here is Friends really good friends.

time!!! is the greatest healer of a broken heart

Your friends are great medecine. Nights out help too. Start spoiling yourself and having a good time. I promise you with my hand on my heart that in time you will look back with a wry smile. Stay strong and walk tall. Have lots of fun!!

Yes, Try to get involved in some sport or activity that you like. Force yourself to go , cause in no time you will make new friends and you will feel good again. Hang around people that love you and will always be there for you. Friends I agree are like medicine. Sometimes even doing something nice for someone else helps.

Time. But time can only heal the pain but not the memory.... :-(

Good friends and a good bottle of wine : )

Get out of the house! call your friends, don't sit around all day thinking of them wondering if the'll call. think of it as a chance to start all over again. find someone who what you they way your are and cares for you!

Oxy Cotton.

Time.

Duct tape.. I prefer the purple kind but it comes in all kinds of colors :)

I don't know as I'm going through the worst broken heart of my life and it literally feels like my heart is physically hurting. I do know exercising and playing sports with my friends takes the focus off of the situation for a while but unfortunately you can't play sports all day. I sure wish it would end and even the thought of being with another woman right now makes me feel weird. I thought that it would possibly help but all I want to do is have my old girlfriend back in my arms. It really hurts!!

friends.. and lots of them.

I currently went through one of the toughest breakups. He was my first love and we were together 4 a year. When we started dating i wasnt even sure if i wanted to b with him but he convinced me to try and i fell hard. We had a crazy relationship but were so in love with each other. We broke up because we were fighting alot n he thought we should b friends n work back to how good our relationship was but i just couldnt seem to do it. So i ended up gettin drunk one night and kissed someone. Then the next day my ex called me n said he made a mistake and to come back to his apt. I did but then when i got there he saw a hickey on my neck and completely shut down. But he told me i could stay at his place but we would just b friend, but that same night we went out n he ended up kissing me. Then the very next day he wouldnt even look at me, i was so confused that i left and told him he needed to decide what he wanted. He said he wanted to b friends but i just couldnt hold my emotions back.I was acting desperate and crazy. I kept askin if he was still in love with me and he would never answer me. Finally one time when he was drinkin he said sorry but no. but he would never say it to my face. When we left from college for the summer i never got to see him cuz he lived 7hrs away from me. We stopped talking because he started being really mean to me n hurting my feelings. Then when we came back to college, he came over to my place for a party and didnt say a word to me. Naturally i got upset n started to cry n try to talk to him and he told me i was being ridiculous n needed to get over it. The we saw each other at another party because we have mutual friends he saw me and started yelling at me and saying very hurtful things. Then i found out he had hooked up with someone over the summer. I mean i should have known he wouldnt just stay in bubble n not do anything, it just came as a shock and hurt.I just do not understand him. Is he really over it like he says? Or is he hurting just as much? I feel like he is really bitter for me kissing someone the first night he broke up with me, however he says he isnt and is over it.

i usually cry, cry and cry some more. then chocolate helps i mean really it does. then i like to sit outside and watch a waterfall, somoething calming.

hi.. try to go out with your friends.. try not to think about her...

heroin. :p

Crazy Glue - works miracles

Time