What do you when you know someone is cheating, they won't admit it and you can't prove it. But you love them despite it all. How do you break it off and not get depressed and obsessive about it?
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tata30
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If you want to break it off, just do it. There's nothing that says you must have proof of any wrong doing. I also think you're already obsessing. Don't worry about *if* you're going to get depressed about a decision you haven't even made yet. Do what you have to do, and deal with the consequences as they come like an adult. Besides, if you're already accusing him of cheating, the relationship is already over. One, if he is cheating, you're just delaying the inevitable. Two, if he isn't cheating, you just sound like an insecure person whom he will never convince that he's not cheating, so he might as well do it.
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I think you should head for counselling. It would help you. If they really are cheating, you will learn to deal with it and move on. If they aren't you may find the help you need to feel secure. I am in this boat and that's what I am trying. For the record, I just broke off ties for now....no contact
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