When I asked boyfriend if I could give him oral last night, he was hesistant about it, when I did, his privates had a slight odor of sewage, do you think he was hesistant because he knew of smell & he knew how he got the smell?

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thank you your response was helpful.
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by Secretive woman on July 19th, 2008
Girly..please STOP!! You may be putting yourself in danger!! You do not deserve to give him anything if he cant think enough of you to CLEAN HIS ASS!!! Sweetie!! PLEASE..go get checked out!!! Even if you have to drag him with you!!! Does he do you the favor in return(does he give you head back??) PLEASE don't tell me that he doesn't!!!
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by LisaJoy on July 20th, 2008
He does, and I will get checked out, I was with him yesterday at church and his mouth smelt like sewer too, so I don't know if this is a natural body odor, OR maybe he gave someone oral sex after they gave him anal sex, I don't know what to think.

We had oral sex again 1 night ago, and I asked him to stop then he kept begging to go on, and he complained that he was waiting for that all day, I felt threatened! and later on I told him so, I don't know what to make of him.
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by Secretive woman on July 21st, 2008
It seems as though he is possibly taking advantage of you. There is a certain point when you must decide, is all the conscern and anxiety worth it?
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
He tells me he loves me and he wants us to work, he wants marriage.
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by Secretive woman on July 21st, 2008
Then he should have no problem divulging why he smells. If he is truly embarrassed and apologetic, he knows exactly why the smell is there. If he can't come clean, he either doesn't trust you, or he's leading you down a road he doesn't want to honestly go down. I may very well be wrong, but that's how I see it.
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
so, question him again then??? how do I question him again???
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by Secretive woman on July 21st, 2008
I would just explain all that you have here. Tell him that the uncertainty bothers you a great deal. If he is unable to tell you specifically why he smells, than may be concealing the reason. I feel that if he is truly embarrassed, he knows the cause.
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
Since I think he knows, I think he's chosing to keep it from you. I'm not 100% honest about everything with my wife, but when it comes to subjects or issues that can and potentially negatively affect our relationship, I don't hold back. If you can't completely trust the one you love, you don't truly love them. If it bothers you as much as it appears to, tell him. Maybe the subtle approach isn't a good method. Be blunt. Tell him it bothers you, and you want to know where the smell comes from.
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
I told him, he told me he will get a blood test today and see what the problem is, I was very blunt about it and told him that he needs to find out what is happeneing there so hopefully we can get to the bottom of this. Would you like me to keep you updated or you don't really need to know??
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by Secretive woman on July 22nd, 2008
Thats up to you. As I said before, I just hope I've helped you.
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by Josh on July 22nd, 2008
My guy got blood tests he showed me results, everything came out fine, he is free from HIV, AIDS or any other STD's and he told me that the doctor DID NOT detect an odor, he made me feel as though I was imagining the odor, what do you think, i am still puzzled by this, do you think he could have faked the lab report eventhough it is signed by doctor??????

Ok I just called the doctor, evidently my guy was there yesterday. Should I have asked the doctor if the lab results were accurate or since my guy showed me the reults leave it???
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by Secretive woman on July 23rd, 2008
I would just leave the doctor issue alone entirely. I truly don't think the issue is a possible STD. I keep leaning to the worst possible guess as to why he smelled. I can't, with any degree of confidence, say what you should do either way. If the smell was just a one-time thing, there had to be a specific cause. I think that if a man's penis smells like it has been inside someone's ass, it probably has. I am no expert, and I can not give you any more suggestions. You've got some big decisions to make, and I wish you the best of luck.
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by Josh on July 23rd, 2008
Thank you. May I ask how old you are?
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by Secretive woman on July 24th, 2008
After he got results back, he KEEPS bringing up the fact that he is free of any STD's, everytime we kiss he KEEPS asking if I smell anything. Yesterday he asked me to smell his penis, do you think that he has figred out a way to mask the scent now, doe she sound like he is ok to you?
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by Secretive woman on July 24th, 2008
I am only 27, but I feel like I'm mentally and emotionally about 60 years old.

By attacking your worries, he's trying to make you not trust yourself. This is typically an act of someone who is guilty of something. They turn your own conscerns around, and make you think that maybe you trust your own judgement. If they can convince you that you imagined it, they can make it almost seem like all of it never happened. I could be completely wrong. I'm only speculating about what may be going on. I haven't seen, smelled, spoken to, or even given his side of this a chance. I don't take you as the type of person who would raise all of this for your own entertainment.
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
Just know this, when someone goes from worrying with you, going to the doctor and such, to blaming you for the whole thing, they probably have something to hide. I feel for you, and I hope you can make sence of all of this. Please, tell him to leave it alone, if you have left it alone.
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
He is supposed to talk to my parents tonight about us marrying, do I tell him to hold off on the talk till I figure this out??? Do you think he will ever come clean???? I was thinking to call him today and STRESS how I think honesty is BEST in a relationship, he just needs to admit to me what is happeneing and we can both move on with other people, he keeps asking me to give hima a chance and he loves me.
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
So what do you think is his game? When we talked about it he kept telling me how I should have no reason to doubt him because he and I went to school together, he told me that this is the same guy I went ot school with ...I should not fear him nor doubt him, I guess he will want me to marry him now then give me a bunch of God awful STD's then STILL keep denying what is happening, do you think he is gay and in denial??? ?What should I do about my parents tonight?
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
Pls help, it is my bday today and i am so gloomy over this whole thing.
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
Hey Secretive:
First off, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Secondly, I hate to see you going thru so much on your big day. If your friend has already gotten tested, and he claims everything came back negative, then where is the scent coming from? Have you gotten yourself checked out as well? Because sometimes the female can carry the offensive odor(not trying to put us out there, but if we've been unknowingly exposed to something unhealthy like that, we can carry that problem around,too-until we are seen by our doctor/obgyn, and be completely treated. Why can't (since you say you & he are about to get married)..go ahead to the doctor, and you BOTH get tested? I just hate to see you going thru this, you seem very worried. The only thing I feel that can stop your worrying and "paranoia" is if you & your friend BOTH go to the clinic, get fully tested. If he's gotten tested, did he share the results with you?? Because it seems like even just to stop you from stressin', the results should show up.
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by LisaJoy on July 25th, 2008
Indeed, Happy Birthday! Don't let this bog you down today. I don't know your man, nor do I have a inkling as to what his motives are. I can't stress enough that I'm just speculating about what is going on. Please, don't let my words dictate anything in your life. Most often, your gut instinct gives you the best route for you. LisaJoy is right, it may be caused by something on your own body, if you had intercourse before you sensed the smell on him.
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
If not, then I can only guess why it was there. Just try and put all of the stress to the side today. Celebrate your birthday. Let it sit for a while, think things over, take a breather, then make a decision as to where to start after you've gathered your thoughts. It may be nothing, though it doesn't seem to be that way. This all may just be uncertainty and emotion raised over a random body odor issue. I wish I knew him, and had more insight into what exactly happened. Unfortunately, I can only guess...
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
He got tested, the results came back, he is free of any STD'S now it is my turn, BUT, now when we are together, when we kiss he KEEPS asking if I smelt anything, I smelt his privates, they smelt good, he thens keeps telling me there is no odor, and then he commented that he thinks that there was NEVER an odor to begin with, I just imagined it out of my fear of getting married, do you think this is possible?
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
Anything is possible...

If I remember right, didn't you say he hesitated to let you go down on him? Wasn't he embarrassed when you told him of the smell? These types of reactions don't come about by something you imagined. Don't let him control your thoughts. It very likely was there, and he knows it. Try to calm yourself down. breathe...

Just keep your thoughts as mellow as they can be. If you holdyour mind together, you should be better able to judge the situation at hand.
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
Thank you for the birthday greetings.
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
so do i stll let him talk to my parents tonight, or hold off until i figure out what is happening?
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
You probably can't stop him from talking to them about it. just make sure you try to relax, and let things go smoothly with them. You don't want your parents to get a mixture of "good" news, and get a bad vibe about your relationship on the same day. They'll just be the worrying parents that they have to be and try to protect their "little girl."
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
Ok so i will just let him know how I feel right now, although he knows, an dask him if he still want to have the talk and if he does let him do it?
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008
I think that should work.
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by Josh on July 25th, 2008
ok thanks
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by Secretive woman on July 25th, 2008

It is just penis that smells, the rest of him is ok. At first, I wondered if he maybe had anal sex, but he told me that he is not into that.
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by Secretive woman on July 19th, 2008
I had oral sex with him again, his penis smelt good that time. I went to church with him on Sunday, and his mouth smelt the same as his penis had 2 nights earlier, so, I don't know if this is a natural body odor, or maybe he had given someone anal sex then gave them oral sex after...
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by Secretive woman on July 21st, 2008
Wow, this is a strange occurance. He may have something he's hiding from you, but I can't tell. My only advice at this point would be to talk to him. Voice your conscerns to him, but be vague at first. Don't let him know you suspect him doing anything wrong. Just approach it as you have here. Ask him about the smells. Just feel him out. Ask him why he thinks he smells this way. There are so many way to approach it, just do so in a manner you'd like to be approached if you were in his shoes. This is all, of course, depending on whether or not you want to figure it out.
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
Oh, I want to figure it out...I asked him about the penis smell, he said he was embarrased and he apologized, he then said it might have been the pants he was wearing, he let me smell, it was not the pants... so I don't know what to say...
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by Secretive woman on July 21st, 2008
I'm just aboe's hiding something.ut out of ideas. Personally, I think hs's hiding something. Unless he wears pants made of poo, they won't make his junk smell like crap. You need to decide if it is worth it to try so hard to figure it out, or cut your loses and call it quits.
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by Josh on July 21st, 2008
It is just that we were talking marriage and I was all set to do this up until he started to smell, now I am filled with ALL KINDS OF DOUBTS AND QUESTIONS. He told me he is gonna get a blood test today and check with doctor to see what the smell is, he is going today he says, is it possible for him to sneak off to doctor and get fake results for me?
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by Secretive woman on July 22nd, 2008
Anything is possible. How long have you two been tofether? Is the smell just something recent?
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by Josh on July 22nd, 2008
Yes, this is recent, we have been together 2 1/2 yrs now and I have never smelt this before, he is always good smelling in his mouth and privates.
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by Secretive woman on July 23rd, 2008

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