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yes. youre human. your feeling are not right or wrong, they just are. acting on them is different, and it depends on your course of action.
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It's okay, but if you are truly desiring someone else, it's probably time to re-think your current relationship.
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ask Jimmy Carter - he lusted in his heart LOL
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Yes...it's normal for everyone in a relationship to sooner or later "drift". I didn't say apart yet though just in the mind or heart. The mind wanders in search of curiousity after reaching a rut in any relationship. It's what you do with those thoughts that's going to make or break your current relationship better. Learn to understand why you feel this way and concentrate on steering your emotions back to your s/o if you really feel he/she's the one. If not, then you are sitting on the fence in making a major decision in your current relationship and you need to decide which direction you want to go. Either way, prepare yourself for dealing with more up & down emotions and possibly pain. Good luck.
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Feelings and thoughts, when innappropriate, are best when NOT acted upon. That's the difference between normal...and cheating.
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Sure. It's not okay to act on the desire.
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It's very common..and human.Just remind yourself that a committed relationsip is not committed if you don't commit to it.
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Sure that's fine. We all have dreams and fantasies that we wish were true. I even have some. Just don't act on them if you are committed to your s/o.
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Perhaps. Though as long as you dont let that desire take away from the amount of thoughts you spend on your SO. If I am interested in someone else, I just take the time to remember why I am COMMITED to the one I am with. It helps.
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Yeah, I think that's ok. As long as you don't act on it.
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It's not ok but everyone has some experience about it. Just keep it quiet and wait till it fade out. Desire never last longer than a few months. To speed it up, try to find out his/her shortcomings. We are all humans. No one's perfect. We desire someone simply because we see the best of him/her without completely knowing him/her.
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Desire as in lust, well, that's human. Desire as in emotionally, reevaluate your current relationship AND yourself.
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