I would rather be single.

I don't mind if a guy doesn't have charm. I dated a guy once that lacked charm so much that his lack of it WAS his charm. He just didn't get it, and it was adorable.

I'm single & I'll stay that way until I meet a guy who has everything listed above. It might be 20 years but I can wait

well, I don't want a girlfriend with an "adventuresome spirit". Charm.. well, that's 2nd priority for me. Passion and security? I'm not sure about the security, but if she doesn't have even the slightest traces of passion, I would probably stay single instead of just being hurt after a few months..

I would wait until a guy came along that possessed all those qualities. Why settle for anything less than the best? =]

From my first marriage at age 18, I have never been single more than a few months. I do not like being single.

I would rather be single than be with anyone who wasn't right for me. Never settle or compromise your beliefs just to not be single

I would rather stay single, I waited two years, before dating, till I met the right person.

I would chose to stay single.

yes, and if your single you have the oportunity to meet someone who ticks the boxes for you. better to choose the uncertianty of a single life than one of a definate unhappy relationship

I would be with someone who lacked passion, security, charm or Adventuresome spirit. Let me tell you what that means to me: Passion: Nobody ever has the same level of passion for one another at every second. If your washing the dishes and he's coming over to dry hump your leg, clearly your passion levels/drives aren't matching. Security: Hmm, I do not know one person who does not have to work for money. We clearly don't work because we enjoy our co workers, or any stress related to jobs. So in a sense we all all financially insecure. Charm: He was so charming he charmed the pants off of other girls? Yeah, I could live wo this one too. Adventuresome spirit: Shark diving, mountain climbing, travels around the world eating exotic monkey brains for fun... I want someone who I can talk to and a hang out with, not someone who's always on the search for the next adventure elsewhere. So I can accept an average person who will not have the same passion as me, we will both be insecure about our cash flow, he's just a real person nothing Prince Charming like, and unless he's testing out my cooking...there's no real adventuresome spirit eitheir. I'm a bore, thank you! :) My BF loves me anyway;all that matters!