My boyfriend seems to be having troubles lasting a while in bed. Any ideas how to help? Or any idea what the problem might be?
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maybe he has erectile dysfuntion. or he should take a viagra lol
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Is he aware of this problem? Does he try to hold it? Its a mental thing. He needs to slow down or focus on something else right when he is about to have a orgasm. If its too soon. You could always get him off with your hand or something before sex. Also the more he practices holding it(stopping then starting) the longer he will last in time. Also if you don't have sex a lot, could be one reason.
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Umm...ED is not the same issue as not lasting long.... Tell him to take a vicodin or another opiate based painkiller before sex and it will allow him to last as long as he wants....not responsible for any addictions that come about from this
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The more you have sex and the more often you do, the longer he will last. Tell him to masterbate often aswell.
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It could be that he is STRESSED out about something at work or in his personal life ... Maybe he keeeps THINKING what IF you were to get pregnant ? Maybe his job security is being threatened or he faces a layoff ....
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smoke weed. problem solved and it feels better
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condoms and some desensitizing cream/gel/lubes
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Have sex more often.
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You don't say how old he is, but that's a very common problem, particularly with younger men. They're just too ... shall we say ... overloaded? Practicing self-control is the best remedy. Have your boyfriend practice cutting off his urine flow whenever he has to urinate. This exercises the same muscle that relaxes during ejaculation. Eventually, he will have enough strength in that muscle, and enough practice at self-control, to outlast YOU! : D
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