I can only orgasm with my legs closed and straight out as if the leg muscles are controlling the orgasm. Do other women have this same difficulty or am I one of the few?
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Prozacjunkie
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Yes some people can only orgasm in certain positions
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yes there are more women like you. if thats what makes you orgasm by all means use them, but i think you should explore more means of pleasure that will make you orgasm
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I have the same issue. It makes it difficult because being on top or with legs bent does nothing for me. I wish I could "fix" this. Any suggestions?
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This happens to me as well. It is somthing i wish i could change. I have tried re-training myself, my brain or my body but nomatter what... my legs have to be clinched tight and straight :(
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I have read things about this and It seems that it might help to do Kegel exercises and to clench those muscles tight to try and achieve orgasm and try not to use the legs so much. So I suppose it is worth a try.
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iam a man and i have this same problim i can only cum wib my leg's are st8 out in front of me and my toe's curl down this suck's 4me cuz i can only make my self cum or if i girl sit's on top of me and use her hand eaither way i wish i culd change it the only good thing is i can stay hard 4 a real long time but i can only cum if my legs are like that so do any men have this problim??
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I am a 41 year old woman and I have always only been able to climax that way. It sucks because that means you have to be really inventive to be able to orgasm during sex that way. My g spot doesn't do much for me so having direct clit stimulation and having my legs straight out and tensed up is the only way I can achieve an orgasm. So you are not alone!!!
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Yes, I have to tense my leg muscles and have them straight out exactly like you. My boyfriend says it is a learnt behaviour and I can unlearn it, but I've been doing it since I was 12 so it is a bit difficult. I tried masturbating in other positions, using a vibe in other positions, but unless I tense my legs I cannot orgasm. I actually remember my first few orgasms when I was 11 or 12, and I remember that then I did it with my legs relaxed and apart, so I am pretty sure it is a learnt behaviour and I suppose I would unlearn it, but to be honest it is too difficult and too much effort. I don't find it impedes my sex life too much - my boyfriend can touch me and give me oral with my legs just slightly apart and straight and I can still orgasm, and if we use modified missionary, with my legs straight out and flat with my ankles together, and him on top and with his ankles on either side of mine, I can orgasm during intercourse too (though not that easily).
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