My boyfriend had sex with only one women, but I had sex with at least nine men, should I tell him, would he look at me different?
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That is entirely up to you, but we have found that although confessing is good for the soul, it is not good for the relationship in cases such as these. It was all in the past, and you are together now, so dont look back, look ahead.
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You shouldn't tell him unless he asks. The past is the past, and there isn't much to be gained by digging it up and hashing it over. If he asks, giving an honest answer is important. But unless your relationship is very stable, don't volunteer the information. There may come a time in the future when its a good idea to tell him anyway, you'll know when and if that time arrives.
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Well, you are not married...yet. this decision is entirely up to you. The only problem i can see, is that some old flames may come back into your life, accidentally, and your boyfriend may have some hard questions for you. Do you level with him up front or do you take a chance and keep quiet? its 50/50. A friend of mine was a stripper, at an earlier age. she married a man and never told him of her past. later in their marriage, someone recognized her and the rest is history and so is their marriage.
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Don't tell him. If he asks, minimize. If he insists, ask him why he wants to know.
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Past lovers have nothing to do with your relationship, so keep them in the past.It's the old double-standard....if he'd had 9 previous lovers he'd be considered a stud, however he WILL look at you in a different light if you admit to nine previous relationships! Keep it to yourself.
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honesty right off the bat if you don't tell him it could come back to bite you in the bite then what
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havent u heard the rule? if ur a girl u divide by 3. honestly thought, if you want to be in a serious relationship with him, and he asks, dont lie.
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What would be the point of telling him? There is nothing to gain - is it not private information? Just because he chose to tell you, does not mean you have to do the same. The past has nothing to do with him - he wasn't there.
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All depends on how jealous/insecure he is. My girlfriend and I are in just about the same scenario as you, and her sexual past does not bother me one bit.
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Honesty is the way to go. And why should you hide it. Men don't hide it. This is the 21st Century! Women are equal and men have to accept it. I would be honest with my mate and also I would never fake an orgasm. I don't have to anyway because I acheive orgasms!!
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