by IAmOhSoCool on October 9th, 2006

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I like a guy, and on Friday, he said he liked me, he just needed to get to know me more, and he didn't want a girlfriend right now. Well, today my friend was talking to him and he said he only liked me as a friend. What's up?

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  • by CleverlyPut on December 13th, 2006

    CleverlyPut

    He's keeping you on 'ICE' that's what it's called when a guy will say what you need/want to hear to your face wihtout commiting to you so he can keep all of his options open...

    If you catch my drift.

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  • by Anonymous on December 3rd, 2006

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    he is probably scared to tell you that he doesnt like you because he doesnt want to hurt you. i suggest finding someone new that will respect you for who you are

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  • by Anonymous too on October 9th, 2006

    Anonymous too

    He's not interested. Don't waste any more time look around and I'm sure you'll find someone else.

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  • by elena on May 23rd, 2009

    elena

    for me sounds like he likes atttention.
    gurl you need to move on and find some oen who will cherish you and not play this kind of games.

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  • by will on December 16th, 2007

    will

    well im aguy and i've been guilty of doing that to and i did it just so i could have someone to fall back on. i didnt want a commitment but i didnt want to be alone if the other girl rejected me.

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  • by BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk on December 20th, 2006

    BAM@Cyberscrewed.tk

    He's keepng you as a base camp. If he finds something else but doesn't like it, he can "fall back" to you. (Militarily speaking) Don't be a second choice.

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  • by welkwelk on November 11th, 2009

    welkwelk

    Wow the same thing just happened to me. He told me he liked me but then when My twin brother was talking to him he said he just said it so he wouldn`t hurt my feelings. But It hurt me more to know he had lied to me. So maybe thats what had happened to you as well. Maybe someday he`ll really like you. Good things happen to those who wait. Well good luck to you!

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  • by fantasy child on May 23rd, 2009

    fantasy child

    Who cares whats up with him? don't waste time wondering about what HE wants.. He told you he wasn't ready, enough said.. instead of him telling the other person he wasn't ready he said he only liked you as a friend. NOW ACT LIKE A FRIEND, be NOTHING more than a friend to him...

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  • by Anonymous on December 14th, 2006

    Anonymous

      Up is a direction.  It's like down, but the other way.  Everything else in your question, up to the actual question, “What's up?” is irrelevant to the meaning of “up”.

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  • by manywords on February 8th, 2010

    manywords

    Honey, you aren't old enough to be on this website. Concentrate on something other than boys until you get a little older.

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  • by Crazydiamond on December 13th, 2006

    Crazydiamond

    All the above could be right, although i think both things he's said could mean different things. Trust your own istinct with him. If he's not into having a girlfriend at the mo as he said to you, and likes you as a friend as he said to your friend,he's either bin hurt b4 and he's waiting to see what type of person you are or he's waiting to see how long or what he has to do to get ya knickers off. Or he could fancy ya friend....

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  • by gerrik on December 14th, 2006

    gerrik

    it seems like he does like you and does not want to hurt you, you should prob be thankful for that and respect him

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  • by Max Power on May 23rd, 2009

    Max Power

    He was trying to be nice.

    He thinks you're fat.

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  • by Eclipse sleeping by moonlight on May 23rd, 2009

    Eclipse sleeping by moonlight

    I would hope for the best and plan for the rest. Assume he was telling the truth. He's not ready for you now. He might be later, but maybe not, too. Move on, but leave the channels open.

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  • by M30W on February 8th, 2010

    M30W

    hes being a douche and probably wants your friend as a booty call too. basically you should cease speaking to him in every way. and you definitely shouldnt sleep with him..

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