Give him all your love. Accept the past. Ignore your family. And forget astrology so much. If you love him you can make it work, and if you live your life by the planets then you will make it work until they tell you there are problems and then you will let it all go. You have one life. Live it. Love it. Make the most of it. Age is in the mind of the beholder (to coin a phrase).

In astrology, Leo/Scorpio represents a trine -- an aspect usually considered the most likley to succeed -- but without doing complete synastry charts it's hard to comment on just your case... As in all relationships -- good open communications is good -- keep in mind that most Scorpio's can sniff a secret out from a mile away -- so even more emphasis on the open. Scorpio's tend to have an interest in the esoteric -- so I'm not sure I agree with the other advice to "forget astrology" -- if it helps you, use it, if it doesn't don't worry about it. If the ages are true, the 20 year age difference also represents a trine in Chinese astrology (any age difference divisible by 4) -- trines are always good. I think things will go well without having to work too hard. But when things do come up -- don't let them block you... look inward, and then just work hard to get past them. re: comments Leolady ... free synastry charts: http://www.astro.ch/ -- choose the "EN" english language version of the site (upper right corner). It's a bit of work, as you have to set up an account, and enter data. http://www.astroadvice.com/ is easier to use, but I don't think as informative. You can state your feelings about answers by rating them.

make him feel his important to him, show him that his age doesn't matter and that you love him for who he is.

It depends souly on you and him. What I say is avoid all opinions and go with the flow, thins work much better when there not planned. Thus there is no way to mess it up and fear what may happend. If its planned and failed, it can be bad, if is spontanious and fails, it can lead to good laughs and form a closer relationship. Trust me (Im a doctor)

beware do not get into arguments Leo's have the tendency to try to be the winner but Scorpio's will strike back hard in a fight they can be cruel if angered but they are into sex very much but can come of a mysterious and have tendencies to lie

Focus on loving each other in every way possible, mentally, sexually, physically, compliments all the time, etc. Don't argue, have a good sex life, and don't focus on leo/scorpio but rather each others needs and desires.

Older men love to be appreciated. As a Leo, you probably have a pretty strong generous side as long as the other person displays gratitude, so lavish attention and affection on him. Leos are also known to be good in bed, so dazzle him with your lovemaking skills! Congrats and good luck!

Yes, don't base your relationship upon birth signs...

Always carry Viagra and make sure he puts you on his Will