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I would say at the name calling because if people start calling you outside of what your mom named you it's disrespectful. If someone I didn't know called me out my name it would start a fight so why would I wanna be with someone who makes ment to fight them all the time.
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Any of the above would be reason for dumping someone ASAP
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1 if it was frequent, 2 otherwise. I might tolerate 1 if it was in the heat of the moment, but not if it happened a lot. I had a boyfriend of many years who got to between 2/3 just one time and I didn't have to think too hard (took me all of a few seconds after I got over the shock) before I showed him the door.
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Name calling would do it for me!
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1. would be the beginning of planning to dump . 2.would be implementing the plan :-) !
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1 would do it for me, if the name-calling was mean-spirited, hostile, or used as a dirty-fighting tactic. One of my ex's used to do this to me all the time. She thought it was funny, I didn't. She called me things like "ass", "retard", etc., especially in front of her friends. Not cool. I'd probably be more hurt by abusive name-calling from my S/O than I would from being pushed or shoved.
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I have been to 3., now that I am older and wiser, it would be at 1, you can have a fight without demeaning and belittling, your S/O.
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there are 2 aspects, one is verbal and the other physical... I would let go of a relation when it's still in the verbal mode i.e. name calling, wouldn't wait for slapping etc....
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