Is big labia minora ugly?

Yes

==============i love all parts of a pussy

No, it's very sexy. Do not ever have surgery to reduce it!

I had a labiaplasty over a year ago and it was the best thing I've ever done. It's one of the easiest surgeries you can do. Not only can I run and wear tight pants now, but my labia have actually become more sensitive now. So, if you've ever read about horror stories by women who got this surgery 20 years ago and now have no feeling down there, I can debunk that. However, I never had a problem with how it looks. I think if I were a lesbian, I would prefer a woman with larger labia for more to play with. But that's just me...

no

Guys won't care esp if they truly care for you... I'm glad i don't have large labias but you kno what... I have a flaw and thats BIG FEET.. I hate my feet and always get self concious when around people esp guys.... everyone has something they don't like about themselfs but im pretty sure no guy will reject you if you have a hanging labia BUT just dont get naked infront of immature guys because they probably go making stupid jokes about 'meat curtains' or 'roast beef' or something.... Your normal

Absolutely not.
I love long lips. My FB is actually stretching hers. She had fairly long lips and had them pierced with 4 rings. Now she adds weights to them as exercise and they are slowly getting longer.
Stretching labia is a regular practise in many cultures.

Yes it is unattractive to most males.