ANSWERS: 20
  • Grow a backbone/spine.
  • Teach them how to treat you.
  • chew through the restraints and run
  • Not enough information to give an intelligent answer. Hurting you how? What was your behavior immediately prior to the hurt? What was your pattern of behavior leading up to the hurt?
  • have some respect for yourself. try to be positive about yourself, dont be a victim and be rational when you respond to them
  • i try to understand the view-point of the person who's trying to hurt me. i dunno, when i understand them better, i can reason with them and get them to stop. i also try not to let the things they say get to me personally.
  • I don't know really. Getting hurt is part of being human. All I can think of is to learn from your past mistakes and if you meet a similar person, be ready to bail out if you can see the same hurtful pattern again.
  • Easy!! You just resolve yourself to not LET someone hurt you. People always say "oh you make me mad" or "you make me upset". When in reality, no one person can MAKE you anything. YOU let YOURSELF become upset/mad. There is no gun to your head. Just dont let anyone get to you and they wont! Remember to keep in mind that YOU have control over how others "make" you feel. :)
  • just ignore them and don’t think about what other people say. the only thing that matters is how you think of yourself just try to be the best person you can be. that’s the quiet point of view. if you want to live an in the moment , breath taking , wacky , crazy life(this just all depends on what kind of person you are. personally I am the in the moment, breathtaking type)then tell the person proudly what you feel and don’t be afraid. as long as it feels the way you want it to feel, then that’s fine.
  • Stop expecting that they won't.
  • If you could build a wall around your heart it would be nice, but then, nothing good would come out either. You'd become bitter.
  • The answer seems simple, but I know from experience...very tough to implement. My mother is quite critical and hurtful, so I limit all my phone conversations to only once per week and make sure I phone her while baking so I can say, "I have to go!" I have "call display" on my phone so if I am feeling vulnerable, I don't answer. I have been getting more assertive and also self-assured. When people hurt me, I think, "Wow, sad that people have to be hurtful to feel superior or feel good about themselves." I make it "their" problem and there is nothing wrong with me. They are the ones who need help.
  • Only way is fighting back by payback, only under the circumstance in which evident harm has been instigated or imposed on you!!Or, don't do anything at all and just leave it up to Karma!!"
  • Pre-emptive strike?
  • I show them my .44.
  • By fighting back. All that BS that they teach kids in school...about ignoring bullies and talking about your feelings...that is all bullcrap and whoever teaches that garbage to kids should be sent to Iraq and have him talk about his feelings to the terrorists there. I mean, at what time did bullies stop and listen to their victim's pleas and reasoning? The only god way to stop an argument is to gtfo quickly or beat your opponent with a good physical or verbal retort.
  • Learn to value yourself more.
  • The answer is in your question, Grasshopper.
  • Develop stronger self-esteem that will make a stronger self-protection.
  • I wear body armour. IT helps

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