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khammer
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I usually know within the first few minutes. I had snops and loud mouths, they give themselves away soo fast.
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well it usually takes me a while. i wait for "signs" that tell me to go after him. for instance, i met a guy a few months ago at a church event after i moved to a new state, 2 mos later, i saw him at my high school, then i went on a campus tour for a college i will be going to in the fall, and HE WAS THERE TOO!! we're even going to be in band together...and last week, i found out that he works right next door to the place i work!! if these aren't signs that i should date him, then i don't know what are!!
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A certain level of bonding can be instant, particularly when there are commonalities like sharing the same faith, having similar hobbies, etc.
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About 5 mins usually, and I will have vibes on a person good or bad. Only once have these vibes ever been wrong so I tend to listen to them.
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Usually, I know instantly. I tend to pass judgement and write people off fairly quickly depending on first impressions and I know that is a terrible quality. I try to give people a chance, I WANT to, but if the initial impression wasnt good then I find it hard to do so. The more I think about it, maybe I should have a little more faith in people. ;)
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Usually within a few minutes...but I have been wrong before. I was too judgmental on someone in the past and he is one of my best friends :)
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3 seconds...
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About 2 hours. I don't know, I generally like everyone. =)
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half an hour for me. enough to see theyre sense of humour.
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I would know almost straight away...lol
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Before or after we have good or bad sex? LOL
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That's kind of tough for me actually. I have a hard time not getting along with people, so if I do go out on a date, I usually genuinely like the person by the end of the night. I think I probably figure it out after roughly 2 weeks though.
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Tough one. To me, if you honestly FEEL that your date seems to understand, value and accept you the way you are. That is why it is so important to show yourself wholly and, contrary to common (but wrong) opinion, the most you share (profession, likes, opinions, attitudes, hobbies, etc.) the better.
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I think this depends on alot of different factors. If you or your date is shy, on what types of dates you go on(hint: going to a movie is not a good way to get to know somebody), and how often you see each other at first. That being said, I think that usually by about date 3-5 you have a pretty good idea of whether or not there is any real common ground and/or chemistry.
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About two weeks - sometimes a month
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