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First thing, is to cut off communication with him, including telephone calls to e-mails. Next, take all the pictures and set them aside, so you don't find yourself looking at them and reminiscing. Then, get involved. Join the gym, pick up a new hobby like scrapbooking. Get out and make new friends. Everytime you find yourself thinking about him, have something else in mind to distract you. In time, it will get better.
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keep yourself busy!! don't get your self down show him your not moping about thinkin and crying about him because not tryin to be harsh but i'm sure his not doin dat!!! u need to go out! have a good time and show him wot his missin. AT the end of the day it's his loss and he will realise soon and then it will be too late! and trust me what goes around comes around;) x
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remember that you arent together and that you should do whats best to you
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Going through the same thing hun. It's horrible. Funny, I was with mine for 4 years, too. If you ever want to talk to someone, let me know, I'm always there. I will tell you more then. x
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The truth of the matter is that you may never get over him. What you need to sort is how to use the relationship as a positive step in your journey through life. There is no problem remembering the good times you had but you cannot alter or effect anything that happened in the past. We all remember our first kiss, our first love and our first sexual encounter and always think that the situation cannot be repeated and, as a first event, it cant, but we learn from experience and that experience makes the next event even more special and more exciting. Think about what you want new in life and the key word is new. You dont have to shut out the past but just use it as something to build on. I have not long come out of a 15 year marriage and the pain was hard for 6 months but I am now in a happier relationship. You will experience even more happiness, I can assure you. Just let life take its course and the pain will soon go, enabling you to eat and sleep with total comfort again.
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Find someone new... Then you will stop thinking about him and start thinking about the new guy in your life..
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Time is your answer. The more evolved you become the less amount of time necessary; but time is still the only healer...
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Find someone else
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A change of scenery always helps. Take a holiday somewhere that you have always wanted to go with a couple of single friends. That will take your mind of things and maybe you'll meet someone on holiday.
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I assume you are A woman. Men tend to think with their gonads. Don't let that get you down.
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the best way to get over a man,is to get under another one.
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