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Absolutely essential. I paid dearly for having failed to maintain such a sacred thing. Please treat virginity as though it were priceless-and not because it means you are better. Just because you will protect yourself emotionally.
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absolutley not. In fact the worst thing you can do is get married a virgin. find a guy who wants you and have him break you in right now. When you do get married, your sex life will be great if you already know what to do. I think you would have to be nuts to stay a virgin.
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I guess it depends on what you believe. I'm not a virgin and I'm getting married this summer. My fiancé is not a virgin either and we are both completely OK with that.
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Consider...in nature, no mammals are monogamous. Man certainly isn't. Sex is a lot of fun and it also makes babies. There is no sin in having fun. There is no sin in having babies.
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I couldnt care less about mine or someone elses viginity status. Honestly, I didnt save it and I never felt compelled to.
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WEll i dont think that in modern society its essential.. Because minds are open at last.. And sex is just a way to come closer.. So i dont really care:D
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I think it is someone's chose to pick if they want to be a virgin. I dont care if my lover is a virgin or not but im just cant wait till i am married because i want to make sure i am sexually attracked to him also
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I would never expect any woman I dated to be a virgin. If she chose to save herself for marriage I would respect her wishes and have the self control not to pressure her into doing anything that went against her principles
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if one is a virgin, saving it for marriage is a good thing.
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It is in no means essential to save virginity for marriage. If you want to be a virgin that is fine. If you don't that is also fine. It is neither important or essential.
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Saving your virginity for someone you truly love (and are absolutely sure of) is essential. I don't believe in promiscuity or casual sex at all. Saving it for marriage is nice, but how realistic is that when you don't plan to get married until you are at least 30? If that's what you want to do though, then you should. It's a wonderful gift to your new spouse! :)
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Essential.
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I think that ideally you should keep it until marraige, however, people usually don't get married until they're 30 these days and that's a VERY LONG TIME to wait. Besides, love shouldn't be based on virginity, so to keep it until marraige or not to keep it until marriage is a personal decision.
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Neither important nor essential. People who keep their virginity for marriage end up by getting married to have sex. The horniest period of your life will start around the age 17/18 years of age (depending on the person) which is way too young to know what you want in life. I think Americans are pretty much the only people left in the western world that are so focussed on virginity, and you probably have the highest rates of teen pregnancy, STIs and unwanted babies. Coincidence? Don't think so.
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No, just imagine this happening to you: http://www.metro.co.uk/news/world/article.html?Wife_discovers_allergy_to_husbands_sperm_on_wedding_night&in_article_id=763143&in_page_id=64
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Saving it for true love is important and essential in my eyes. Marriage is the bond between a man, a woman, and god. Im sticking with either before or after marriage, either way im doin it with a girl i love and loves me back ^_^
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it depends on what you believe and how you value your body. its a special gift, but even someone who's not married to you can appreciate it if they love you(and if they're not a asshole).
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for many it is neither. for others it is important. anyone who considers is essential beyond all chance to compromise does not deserve someone with the moral fortitude to save themselves for marriage. I failed to wait for marriage but my wife failed to wait for me. after 6 years she started cheating and ran away 6 months later. I'd really like to see a stat on divorce rates among people who did wait until marriage.I never would have left my wife even though she was nothing but an abusive burden... but the day she ran away with another man I had to give up on my marriage, however because of how crappy she was even loving her as much as I possibly could I still got over her in only 6 weeks. the fact that my present love interest is a 27 year old virgin makes it easier for me to trust her. she actualy follows the beliefs she claims to.
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Very, very important, but not essential.
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No, 1 of the MANY reasons why I lost my virginity was because I didn't want that to be a factor in the future when I got married. I want the guy to love me for me.
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Neither. It's a cultural dictate and I value thinking and deciding for oneself, not as a part of 'the herd'. - C'Mon anonymous religious zealot downraters! At *least* have the balls to comment along with your sanctimonious judgement. - ;-)
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