ANSWERS: 12
  • No, there is ALWAYS a chance!
  • Good rule in life : never date (or marry) someone hoping to change them. Period!
  • Yes. It's unwise to date someone with the hopes of changing them.
  • why dont u find someone who is already a match? you should never date someone to change them.
  • Maybe your just what she needs.
  • Yes, "dating" someone under ulterior motives is always unwise. Date her if you like the person she is now, or move on and be a friend.
  • yes~it would be unwise because you can't make anyone change....they have to do that themselves; if she really wants to be with you then it's up to her to change.....you don't have that power~but you can let her know that you would support her if she tries to make a better life for herself :)
  • yes, she would seduce you and make you indecent too. For as a honeycomb the lips of a strange woman keep dripping, and her palate is smoother than oil. 4 But the aftereffect from her is as bitter as wormwood; it is as sharp as a two-edged sword. 5 Her feet are descending to death. Her very steps take hold on She′ol itself. 6 The path of life she does not contemplate. Her tracks have wandered she does not know [where]. 7 So now, O sons, listen to me and do not turn away from the sayings of my mouth. 8 Keep your way far off from alongside her, and do not get near to the entrance of her house, 9 that you may not give to others your dignity, nor your years to what is cruel; 10 that strangers may not satisfy themselves with your power, nor the things you got by pain be in the house of a foreigner, 11 nor you have to groan in your future when your flesh and your organism come to an end. 12 And you will have to say: “How I have hated discipline and my heart has disrespected even reproof! 13 And I have not listened to the voice of my instructors, and to my teachers I have not inclined my ear. 14 Easily I have come to be in every sort of badness in the midst of the congregation and of the assembly.” Proverbs 5:3-14
  • I'm not sure about the wisdom of any woman dating any man who would categorize himself or others as so.
  • Hmm... Probably not. Unless he plans on giving her permanent amnesia so he can help her start a new life without ever remembering being indecent, I highly doubt it. But really, I think it largely depends on the reasons for and the circumstances of her indecency. If she is essentially a good person who was forced to give up her morals and principles, he could be able to make her ''decent'' again.
  • Yes. Why would you date someone you want to change?
  • Unwise, probably, but not impossible, considering that who we are, in part, comes from what we are around. If both people find they enjoy each other, it IS likely that the indecent woman will become a little more decent, as well as the decent man will become a little less decent. No, it probably won't change who they are as people, but if the decent guy likes her anyway, go do it... and don't let her rub off on you!

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