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Jen-Jen
ANSWERS: 8
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When your money dissapears quicker than usual.
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If you are the one doing all the giving. If you can answer the question what have they done for me with nothing, then chances are good you are being used.
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he says 'thanx for the sex, but i gotta go now; got my girlfriend waitin outside.'
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when you will do anything for them, but when you want them to do something for you they always have an excuse!
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Jen-Jen...hun This run of questions leads me to believe you are setting yourself up to get hurt. It sounds like you need to have a very serious heart to heart with your so called friend and for the record...any friend that would inspire these past few questions...really isn't much of a friend to begin with
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ask them
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When there are no give and take in the relationship. Sometimes it's okay to keep helping someone but you can't keep doing that forever. If you can't remember any good things that they did for you last time and you have done all the giving, he/she might be using you. Having said that, sometimes people are not aware of the fact they are actually USING someone to get what they want. They use people because they can and don't have much of a guilt for doing that. It may be because they are used to getting best treatments or no one actually taught the life lesson for them. In that case, they need to learn how not to be spoiled in relationships (i.e., romantic, family and friend etc. It applies all different kind of relationships) and learn how to keep balance in relationships.
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I have a friend I have known for about 1 yr now he is a boy we have gotten really close I thought until last night I realized I was the one doing all the giving and he was doing all the taking and like I had read in others he would make excuses when it was his time to give so im done with that friend I can do better
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