ANSWERS: 11
  • Talk to him about it, if he cares, he would get a job. Or atleast try to.
  • If someone is supporting his every need, he has no reason to earn a salary and support himself. I remember hearing a good insult once... "Takes a really big jockstrap to support a dick like you"... or something like that. Even a part time job would get him out of the house and give him some structure and routine.
  • tough love. tell him get a job or leave
  • G'day Anonymous, Thank you for your question. I would suggest that he has four options: a) get a job or at least actively seek one; b) become a househusband keeping the house and garden neat and tidy; c) start studying to earn a degree; or d) pack his bags. If he wants your love, he has to earn it. He shouldn't be sitting around the house, doing nothing. Regards
  • Withhold sex.
  • No job, then no sex. See what happens when you don't follow the rules. ^o^
  • If you live w/him, move out. If not, move on.
  • You kick his ass to the curb, homelessness will motivate you every time. Not only is he not helping you, you are supporting him, and enabling him.
  • Move on. If he is this much of a problem now he will only be a bigger problem later. Life is too short to be with a loser.
  • thats soo much like my boyfriend!! we dont live with eacother thow, we still both live with are parents.. but it isses me off, hes like 18!! and he dropped out of scool and if he doesnt get a jon his parents are going to kick him out of the house... hes so stupid sometime, but i love him,,, so i usually just keep tlaking to him about it and be like k your waisting yout time, and if you evern wanna live with eacother you need to et a job eventually, or at least try tooo!!!! urghh.. guys are so unmotivated somrtimes.. my b/f's lazy cause he smokes weed all the time... so if your boyfriend does too you should tell him to cut back on the weed/drugs and try to get a job if he still wants to keep a relationship with you
  • well...ive been asked this question b4 and here's my answer...tell him that "if u dont get a job were im going 2 break up with u" but thats just bluffing of course...keep the bluff until he gives up...BUT if he agrees 2 break up u quickly tell him u were bluffing(and if all else fails...ur going 2 have 2 die...thatll show him) P.s. jk bout dying part P.S.S gl

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