I know some 19 year olds that have been with 34 guys. :)

it depends. I mean look at each person you've been with and the scenario. Also at what age you started having sex. Does it make sense to you? Then it's not a lot. If you just had 17 one night stands and only two relationships then maybe thats a lot but that's probably not the case.

yes

I guess it would depend on whou you compare yourself to... I would say no... just be careful of course. But I am sure they were 19 very lucky guys... :)

Assuming you became sexually active around 20, that's 19 guys over 14 years which - on average - is one guy every 9 months. I don't think that's very excessive, to be honest. I mean, if you entered into a long-term monogamous relationship at age 21 so you've slept with 1 person for the last 13 years, and 18 people the previous year, that would be a bit excessive.

No...not at all..honestly..there is no right or wrong magic number

No. I don't think so. You're taking a lot of risk though as there are people out there with diseases that once you have you just can't get rid of. A lot of those guys aren't going to tell you if they have them - they only want to get thier rocks off. I don't think that 17 qualifies you as "tramp".

Not nearly enough.

Its alot but i say its a good thing

yes it is a lot, but as long as you are careful and protect yourself always, and the guys you go with are fine with it, then why not

statistics say that by the time a girl reaches 21 she has had 25 partners. sorry but your under achieving. lol

I wouldn't say it'a a lot. Though I wouldn't tell future men that number lol I'll just say that.

Not at alll, Im a Junior in highschool and I know plenty of girls that have been with that many guys && they are half your age.

Sounds healthy amount to me

No, you are cool with that number! It shows some spunk.

It seems like a lot to me. I'm almost 32 and I've been with 4 guys. But we all have different standards.

For your age it is probally about normal though a lot may not admit they were with that many

Not at all, are you serious? I know women my age that's been with 19 guys this year alone

I think it only depends on how close together they were, but if they were spread out a bit i dont see a problem with that number.

not at all. I'm 25, and I've been with about 20 people, an same with everyone else I know

no thats not a lot, im 21 and i Plead the 5th. LOL

i would say yes. apparently the average for a straight women is 6-7 in there lifetime.

If you started when you were 15, that would be 19 guys in 19 years That's practically celibate! Are you tired? Lazy? A nun? OK, just kidding. But it really is no big deal. Now, get out there and do your part to help horny guys find a mate! Think of it as a social responsibility. :)  

why do you say you're a lady ?

Sounds like you are having fun, if you are unsure, stop counting.. It wasn't all 19 at one time was it. hehe now that might be fun

Do want to make it 20? Ive lot count am I bad? NO Im good thanks.

If you have another 19, would you call your self a lady then? I think you are cool!

the average girl by age of 25 has had 25 partners. so your slacking. lol. hope that helps.

I do not think so i came across people with 20 years diffence in the age.

its not a rare case . it needs streanth as well as physical level to absob.......

Well you are living w/ the fact so it's prolly not that bad. The person ends up w/ you may have issues if they are not close to the ballpark number...

Im getting close to that age and Ive only been with 1 girl.

Slut +3

no one can be the judge of that but you , if you feel u need to ask our opinion ask yourself why. does that not sit well with you ? how do you feel about it. My opinion isnt worth much if you already know the answer to that question. Honestly and truly that is noones business but yours and all that matters is how you feel about yourself. If you feel its to much for your age then slow down be more careful of who u give yourself to . If your ok with it regardless of what anyone thinks then proceed but with caution . hope this was helpful in someway

lmao...i certainly hope not (or im a total whore)

do you think it's a lot? it sounds like a lot but i don't think it is.

I say ou are all good till you loose count with your fingers and toes. A friend of mine said as long as your number is less than 1/2 your age you are all good.

I am 42 yrs. old, and I know that I'm a lady. I have been with maybe 145 guys, since I was 13, and I have loved every bit of it. I look on it as experience, I'm just well aged, and seasoned, and ready for whoever cums (pardon the pun) next. For a lot of girl's, it dependes a lot on circumstances, my first 2 1/2 years, 1 guy. Then, Over night, everything changed the next year, totally celibate. Then the next 15 years, I kinda went wild, about 130 guys, due to those circumstances I mentioned. The last 10 years, a commited relationshop with a great guy who likes to share, and a couple of single excursions, due to those same circumstances. Total, about 14 guys. I think it's kind of unfair that guys are expected to bed a different girl every night and girls are expected to be true to one guy for their entire life. Who can say DOUBLE STANDARD. If that makes me a slut, then so be it, I have no regrets.

I personally think so,but thats my opinion,instead of worring about numbers,look into professional help,mabey low self esteem,your upbringing,ect.If you feel the need to ask,mab.you just answered your own question.

My wife is 40 and has admitted to 65 partners, and we've been a couple since mid high school. Hummm.... guess she's cheated on me a few times. I'm 41 and have been with 6 women, hmmm..... guess i've cheated on her a few less times.

for a lady, yeah thats a lot

That's only about 1 guy a year since the usual age for the start of sexual activity. I'm sure a lot of gals have that beat.

YES!

Well I've only been with one! But I'm 19 and in a committed relationship. My flatmate's 18 and has been with about 30 guys though... Do I don't think 19 is that bad at 34.

Good for you I hope they all gave you orgasims...Who cares as long as your getting satisfied good for you.

Hey it could be worse My fiancee had 29 before i met her & she was 34.... I shut it down You just love sex you freak you, dont worry someone will come along and "shut it down"

Im a male 33 years old, That is not alot at all i have been with around 90 partners so to me your a saint.

Secretive woman, please hug your self. Not for any one to judge you, you should stop, do to disease going on. Not to many women or people are honest and you may have done that. But your one an only knows your true heart, God can love you more than anyone. Just call out to him and mean it. He is merciful and forgiving. Much love goes out to all be blessed!!!

Secretive woman, please hug your self. Not for any one to judge you, you should stop, do to disease going on. Not to many women or people are honest and you may have done that. But your one an only knows your true heart, God can love you more than anyone. Just call out to him and mean it. He is merciful and forgiving. Much love goes out to all be blessed!!!

Not at ALL ! My ex-wife and I were into the "swinging lifestyle" for over a year before she told me of her fantasy to do a 12 man Gang Bang. ( I thought 12 was a lot for her to take on but that's what she WANTED ! ) We were only able to come up with 8 guys she'd already been with in our previous swinging encounters ( which I thought would be ENOUGH ! ) but she was really hung up on the number 12 so she and I agreed to meet the 8 guys at a local bar so she could try to "recruit" 3 more guys ! She recruited SIX more guys ( to total 15 of us ! ) and she pulled an "all nighter" doing the 15 of us all in ONE night ! ( Almost your 19 number ! ) By the time the sun came up there were still 5 of us left ( me and 4 other guys ) - I helped her fix some breakfast ( all of us still naked ) and after breakfast she took the 5 of us on AGAIN ! They FINALLY left around noon but we were both still so turned on by the encounter that she and I got after it one more time before we decided to get some rest ! It was an AMAZING experience - one I'll never forget ! My CURRENT wife had only been with 3 guys before she met me - I've told her I think she should at LEAST have 8 more guys SOMEWHERE along the way - I think EVERYONE should have AT LEAST 12 sex partners in a lifetime ! She's SLOWLY starting to become receptive to the idea - she says maybe just ONE more guy to join us at FIRST ( for a threesome ) - then MAYBE if THAT goes well she'd consider doing two or three more guys at a time so we can get her to that "at least 12" number sooner ! You know what they say - "variety is the spice of life" - and I like MY life "spicy" !

One a year, hope they're wearing a "raincoat" or you could end up with _ _ _ _!

Far too many, whether you were married to any of them, or all of them, or not. With a number like that, you can't claim to be "a lady."

As long as you are not satisfied I don't think any number is enough since you love to experience and reach the other side of ecstasy. Reply me back when you find it correct for you. Lovingly Maggge

I'm a guy and have had 30 different women; I'd have more if I hadn't got married. I was seeing 4 at one time. My drive and stamina is good. I would say no, It is done you can't take it back, did you have fun, did you learn, don't regret it. Add it to life and go on.