Do you ever get the feeling that you are causing a person you care about more grief than good? Do you really think you're worth it?
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Jay Was Here - AYPWIP
ANSWERS: 11
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All the time, and no. If I knew a way to stop it that was surefire and painless, I'd seriously consider it.
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No..I'm not that kind of person. I've always been very low maintenance..I like deeds, not words and gifts..I don't require constant undying reassurance that I'm loved..I don't make demands..I don't set traps..I'm not extravagant..I don't lie..I don't buy things and hide them so "he" won't know. :)
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yes. Constantly since my back injury and subsequent unemployment. The more bills I incur personally only adds stress to an already stressed out spouse. Do I think I'm worth it? I told her to dump my ass, but she doesn't want to give up yet.
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wow.. I'm with hole in the woods on this one. Eerily similar to my situation.
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Rephrase the question: "How strong is the love between you and a person you suspect yourself of causing more grief than good?" Asked that way, the answer becomes self-evident.
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Nope ... I am a very careful person when it comes to such things ...I don't think I am worth anything to be in a position to control somebody else's emotions .
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Everyday! I wonder why he ever said I do.
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Don't remember ever feeling that way
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I have that feeling, but I think the love I feel for him, and the love that he returns, is strong enough to get us through anything, and whatever doubts there are now, will only be a bad memory in the future.
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Yes. No.
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I probably am causing him more grief than good, which is unfortunate, because that's not my intention at all. Oh, and I am probably not worth it at all.
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