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by Azorah on April 1st, 2008

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I broke up with a guy four years ago ammicably. After mending the heart break and getting over the past, I'm finding myself falling over myself for him again; to me, he's a lot of things I wish I had in my life. How do Itell him.. I want him back?

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  • by Soccergirl on January 5th, 2009

    Soccergirl

    Call him, meet up with him. Find out if he has a gf, if not let him know how you feel, the worst is he'll say no, but you gotta give it a try.

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  • by Dazed and Confused on January 5th, 2009

    Dazed and Confused

    Be his friend again for a while and make sure that you still LIKE him for who he is, not what he can offer you. Give yourself time to truly analyze your feelings for him. All great loves are built of great friendships first.

    If you decide then your heart really loves him, then you've got to follow it. Sometimes the heart just wants what the heart wants.

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  • by answersac21 on January 5th, 2009

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    bj

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  • by what on April 1st, 2008

    what

    Cut to the chase, just tell him .

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  • by Alvaro on April 1st, 2008

    Alvaro

    Call him. E-mail him. Just say hi. Then if you feel safe, let him know. I'm in a similar situation. Mine's a little worse though because the girl I broke up with got married.

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  • by somewhere Pll loves her dawgy on April 1st, 2008

    somewhere Pll loves her dawgy

    Is it really him that you're missing? Sometimes the familiar can seem like a safe bet for whatever is 'missing' in your life at the time. The issues that you broke up with him for in the past will still be there.

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  • by CountryHeartedGirl on April 1st, 2008

    CountryHeartedGirl

    Sweety, for alot of us thats a big problem. Still I find mending a broken heart or a relationship comes with patience. Tell him you want to catch up, don't jsut jump in and go 'hey i want you back date me please?' You need to make him know that you can be strong without him and he isn't the be-all and end-all to everythign you do. Be strong and confident. Ask him out for a drink, or lunch, catch up and mend thsoe seams. Good luck sweety

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  • by badhabitsx3 on April 1st, 2008

    badhabitsx3

    start small. be friends first. the best relationships are formed on friendships. then when the timing feels right, tell him.

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  • by ernie on January 5th, 2009

    ernie

    i believe you should move on. i think relationship can be a sick mind game. You could try to think of ways to hint your presence to see he still feels the same, but i personally think you are working yourself up for another heartbreak. I might be a harsh and strong person so i never go back to what it once were. I just keep moving and finding new paths to love. So far, it has served me really well. I went beyond what i once were and found more about myself than i had once knew. I wish you luck to love someone new..maybe even someone you dont know yet. i dont think you would regret your bold decision. good luck

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