by punished? on March 30th, 2008

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How do u know if one of your relationships is toxic for u? how do u change it without getting rid of the person? esp if u have been close for a long time and the problems are few but still affecting u, but otherwise the friendship/relationship is great?

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  • by tntitans21399 on April 1st, 2008

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    The relationship is toxic if your not happy in it. What ever the issue is that is making it toxic, may not be something you can change. If it is something the other person is doing, it isn't going to change until they change. And they will only change when they want to. If they are a type that always get in trouble, then they just might always be that way and you can't change anything and as long as you are around that person you will get sucked into the issue.

    Now if it is something simple then you could let them know you feel and tell them if the issue isn't fixed soon that you are gone. Then maybe the other person will realize and change so the issue(s) don't come up.

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  • by schmee2369 on April 7th, 2009

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    when your going in the negative direction, instead of in the positive. When you become unhappy...and when the "things that matter most"...become other than that. but the one thing to do...is just talk to that person about the problems that are getting in the way...until those problems have been solved there is no way the relationship will ever get better becuase there are "walls and barriers" that are holding the "butterfly" trapped within from flying...if that makes sense...communication is the key. Sit down person to person...eye to eye...and speak, its the only thing that will solve the situation. Good or bad, the outcome will be right.

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