Why dont i enjoy sex? and i find masubating more enjoyable. its fustrating i cant have an orgasm during sex!

Are you a female you need to find your sexual intersts and explore them with great expectations. you need to be comfortable with having sex with yourself if you feel that you you are having great sex by yourself then go for it,if you are cumming by masturbation alone all you need is a vibrator and personal lube.Dont worry you are not lesban or gay it is 100% ok to pleasure yourself by vaginal, penis or anal. Trust me on this.

I'm a male and am finding I don't really enjoy it either - nor masturbation - it feels decent but it is way too much psychological trauma to even make it worth it anymore
about the only thing I've enjoyed recently is buying J-O time on pay online webcam sites
I know the women on cams are cool with it and even seem to enjoy it - or at least sincerely enjoy the money and seem to be cool with doing what they do for the money
win - win
other than that and it's just way too much stress - and even that is stressful because it doesn't really feel right either

You do not say what sex you are. The only answer I can come up with is that you have some deep rooted trauma that you need to address.

Plus I might add that you may need to reevaluate your choice of lovers. You might not really know what makes you cum.

What do you think or fantasize about when you masturbate?

The more you open up and discuss it the more possibilities someone like myself can steer you in the right direction to help you.

sometimes after i've been masterbating for awhile.. like everyday... for 2 weeks straight... and i do have sex, it seems that masterbation is better, but if i don't masterbate and then have sex, the sex seems better, and i guess it all depends on ur parenter too, if he turns you on and is able to get you to reach an orgasm