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by iVanish on March 19th, 2008

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Do you mind if your boy/girlfriend has friends of the opposite sex? I don't mean like they're going out alone or hugging all the time or anything, just friends? Do you get angry if your bf/gf goes out with a group of friends that includes both sexes?

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  • by APACHEmeansENEMY on March 19th, 2008

    APACHEmeansENEMY

    No, I don't mind..as long as I am being treated with the same respect i give them..no problem!

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  • by Sweet T on March 19th, 2008

    Sweet T

    I am not insecure and I trust my boyfriend, so I would have no reason for concern.

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  • by BabyRoo on March 19th, 2008

    BabyRoo

    I don't mind. They can be friends/hang out with whoever they wish. :)

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  • by Alley on April 11th, 2009

    Alley

    If you are secure with your relationship, this should not matter. However, if the opposite sex friend comes on the scene after your relationship has been going on, this may be cause for a further look especially if they tend to go out a lot alone with this individual. This might be a little questionable then but friends before a relationship says if they had a love interest they would have it going on at that time and you would know it.

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  • by verdeluna on September 6th, 2009

    verdeluna

    it depends on which "kind" of friendship it is....I mean, the level of intimacy involved. It is easy to say ... I am not jelous, but how many people would enjoy having your boyfriend talk intimately more with his "girlfriends" rather than with you? Friends to hang out and talk about this and that are fine, friends with whom you share your deepest self, are not ok. I am of the opinion that if you have such a friend of the opposite sex, that that should be your mate. personally, I had this experience and wished the guy and his special "girlfriend" good luck and good bye. The "best friend" place, and my bare soul are now devoted to somebody that gives me the same. we both have opposite sex "friends" to chit chat and have a laugh, but that is it.

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  • by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on April 11th, 2009

    TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT

    I don't even mind is she has opposite-sex-friends she hugs. you can never be someones entire world. if you can't accept her having male friends you will force her to hide things and that is when problems occur.

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  • by Gingerminx on April 11th, 2009

    Gingerminx

    No.

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  • by ChandaDiane - est. 1975 on March 19th, 2008

    ChandaDiane - est. 1975

    I'm not a jealous gal, he can do what he likes as long as he comes home to me, ALONE!

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  • by Jane on March 19th, 2008

    Jane

    No not really. I am thinking of the girl friends that my boyfriend has and I would be comfortable if he hung out with them alone or in a group. One is married and the other is...well, very unattractive and not his type of girl. We dont hang out with members of the opposite sex though, it's kind of our rule we have. It does make us uncomfortable. I wouldn't like him starting new friendships with women, that would bother me but friends he's had for years and years...thats not my place to say it's wrong because I dont feel that it is wrong.

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  • by Clive Owen on February 22nd, 2009

    Clive Owen

    the important thing is the way my partner devotes herself to me, well i dont really care about the rest of her activities and relationships, specially since i cant commmit to anyone,
    if you've got 3 hours with someone, u only have to be with her and think about her during the specific time,
    the rest is all yours,
    whats really wrong with partnership that everyone's running away from!?

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  • by Anonymous on April 10th, 2009

    Anonymous

    No, I don't mind. He's known some of them longer than he's known me.

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  • by Carl_07 on April 10th, 2009

    Carl_07

    I wouldn't mind and my girlfriend Is a grown woman and she knows what she's doing cause I'm all the man she needs.

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  • by rigby on March 19th, 2008

    rigby

    no, i dont mind - i am way too mature to get upset over that -

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