O.K. Given a choice which would you prefer, Your S/O cheating and you knowing the truth or not cheating and you never know?M/F
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ANSWERS: 17
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Judging by your play-on-words name, I'm guessing what your profile pick is... but anyway, off topic... I would pick option two. BTW, were you on stories.com??
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good question! i think i would rather know so i could get rid of them!
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I would want to know. I would then want to know why. Then I would reevaluate the relationship in terms of firstly what did I do if anything or not do that caused my mate to cheat. If it was something that I directly or indirectly caused then I will take responsibility and try to correct it. Then start over with that person and not make the same mistakes. If I did not do anything wrong and did my best in every way then the person I am with is just a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater so I would dissolve the relationship and move on.
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Ignorance is bliss! I would rather not get destroyed from the information.
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Hmm... "... or NOT cheating and you never know..." I'd rather #2: they didn't cheat and I didn't know, because I wouldn't suspect my S/O of cheating without some very serious evidence which clearly wouldn't be present if they weren't cheating. Thus, a happy relationship without cheating involved. Who would want #1? lol : P
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option two i agree ignorance IS bliss (and I know nothing :)
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Id want to know because id fear diseases for a start and not only that my life would be a lie.
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I would like to know so I could make a few plans for myself:)
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I don't need to know - it's called trust.
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you need more options here my choice is not cheating and knowing!
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Try this people: Your S/O has a friend the situation becomes suspect and you find your self wondering. Now you have TWO choices. 1 is they are cheating and you get to know the truth. 2 they are not and you never get to know. What is more important to you knowledge+ (certain guilt) or fidelity and wondering. In life we don't always get to dictate options for our selves. I am curious what most people would choose. Decision not as easy as it sounds? That is the reason for the riddle/question.
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...well, while anyone believes "truth" is dependent on someone else's behavior, I imagine both options might return some state of internal conflict...especially since the word "cheating" which implies some sort of breech of contract is being used as some sort of relationship health barometer... what if the idea called "truth" has absolutely nothing to do with what your s/o does or doesn't do? it wouldn't matter either way, would it?
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This question doesn't even make sense to me. Of course I want option two. My S/O cheat. You can never really know for sure I suppose but I trust him and that's good enough for me.
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Tough one. I would hate to think that what I thought we had was a lie. In the end though I would rather know.
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If my boyfriend didn't cheat on me, how is it possible that I would know that he was cheating? I choose Option #2. However, if he cheated, I am pretty sure I would want to know. I am female.
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I would perfer my boyfriend if he did cheat on me to tell me and step up an be a man so that I can find out y he did it an make sure he didnt do it again.. Yeah it would hurt me but I would rather no then to be a DA stuck in the blind.
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Cheating and I knew so I could divorce him and get all his money :)
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