SHOULD ME AND MY WIFE HAVE GROUP SEX OR A THREESOME WITH CLOSE FRIENDS?

Hiya!!!

If the idea interests you, then begin by opening a line of communication with all parties involved. Threesomes are wonderful acts, however, can cause damage if not executed correctly.

Hope this helps!

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My wife told me the other evening that a mutual friend (who is married)asked her about a threesome with me, my wife and her.

We have been married 20 years and in the beginning I used to tease about having a threesome to which I got the standard reply. Now,not only was my wife asked, but she actually relayed the request to me. That got me to thinking that maybe she is seriously considering it.

I did not actually answer her with a yes or no, I just kinda clammed up. Then tonight, my wife said, "Well, she hasn't brought it up since the other night." I immediately went quiet. See, I wanted to ask her where our friend's husband stands on all this but at the same time, I wasn't comfortable about opening the door to that conversation. When my wife met them about 3 yeaers ago, she told me not long after that she thought they were swingers based on some things that were said by both of them.

I have mixed feelings about it, flattered, exicited, nervous, wondering how would be behave towards each other afterwards?? I mean c'mon, lets be honest..fantasy can be a great tool for arousal but should I really act on it? Is my wife going to see me the same after watching me have sex with another woman?? AND am i really going to be turned on by seeing them together??

These are people I have a personal realtionship with, not some paid actors boffing in front of a camera for our in-home veiwing pleasure.

I think that if we did go through with it that the natural progression would most likely be all four of us and/or the MFM action. Problem is, this guy is not one that I would want my first bisexual encouter to be with..even if there was no interaction between us directly.

I do know one thing for sure, there's no rewind on that remote.

I would not. It would change the relationship and would throw more suspicions than would be in there normally....quite possibly ending it. I would say try swingers at a party or club. Maybe invite the friends to come along.

There are several factors to consider. Assuming the idea sounds good to you and your wife, you need to consider your personal feelings- What if your wife has more sexual chemistry with your friend than with you? Could you handle your wife talking about how much fun she had with so-and-so? Is your relationship strong enough to prevent romantic feelings for the opposite couple?

I'm not saying you shouldn't- sex should be fun, and this is one way to experiment... But you should make sure you have all your bases covered and are fully aware of any "complications" that could come up as a result of this endeavor. Have a heart to heart with your wife to make sure this is something your relationship can withstand.

With that in mind, good luck either way! :)

If you have known your close friends a long time and they agree i say go for it, it may bring you friendship closer together. But hold off on group sex for now try a threesome and see how it goes.

Thats going thru another door...it depends on all of you to remember it just sex, not anything else no attachments of emotions....Watch out what you do...it might backfire in your face..

My ex-wife and I were in the swinging lifestyle for several years but we never attended any swinger clubs or engaged in sexual activities with strangers ! Our "group sex" encounters developed from our "friends" who BECAME pretty "close friends" DUE to our sexual activities together ! It started out with just a FEW "friends" but there were more and more who joined us along the way and it DEVELOPED into some pretty large "group" gatherings ! As more and more people became AWARE my wife and I were swingers our sexual gatherings grew in size and we were at times SURPRISED by some of the couples who decided they wanted to participate ! In a first time experience it's BEST to explore with "group sex or a threesome with close friends" - it's a lot less likely to become awkward - and the fact that you have at least SOME knowledge about the participants should make sexual interaction a lot easier !

So far my bf and I have only had multiple partner situations with "strangers", meaning people we didn't know beforehand but who are also into the lifestyle (we met them through various websites). I think this works well for us and I recommend it as an introduction to others who are curious. That way, if you don't like the results you never have to see the other parties again. If you do like it, you can continue that way or begin involving people you do know. Best of luck.

My wife and I would recommend that you NOT have sex with close friends. If you want to have group sex, do not involve people well known to you. It may work out fine, but it also may ruin the friendships. Close friends are rare and precious, and sexual partners are many and easy to find. Good luck.

If you both agree to it, and you have friends you trust, are attracted to, and are mature enough to take the adventure seriously, then it could be a fantastic way to spice things up. Be safe and enjoy!

Although I never had had group sex (I've been with 2 guys at once), I'd say stick with somebody you KNOW well and then IF you have to have group sex, then know those people well also. When the time does come for me to start having group sex with other guys, I KNOW I'll want me and my boyfriend to know and trust them all well.

The most important thing is that you and your wife talk about this in detail. Make sure each of you clearly understands the other person's limits. Do a lot of "what if" type discussion. There is a HUGE possibility for jealousy issues with this kind of activity.

If after CAREFUL discussion, you are both interested, then go for it!

yes why not?

Don't do it with close friends , do it with people you meet during vacations

That works for my wife and I

i say a threesome with a close friend. thats what me and my gf did and it all turned out good

No. I recommend an aquaitance instead. My wife got very jealous after the fact and thought I was into the other chick. We were both good friends with the lady and it ruined the friendship. Turned my wife off forever on having a threesome too. :(

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