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It really depends on you and your wives relationship. If you are just all of the sudden after years of marriage to swap your wife you may want to think long and hard about it. To do it successfully your really need to adopt it as a lifestyle. You and wifes relationship will change. Now if you have done it from the get go then no its not a bad thing. Its really not but a couple needs to figure out before hand is this a stupid one time fantasy or are we going to continue this. Doing it as a fantasy is dumb because there is so much risk involved. When I say risk I mean divorce and her taking 50% or more of what you have for the rest of your life. My opinion is if you want to have multilple partners but one steady one don't get married. Whats the point.
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The fantasy is common although I have never seen studies showing specifics . Seeing your wife pleasured sexually is nothing new and there are a lot of couples out there that either participate in mfm's or fmf's but never do a full swap because one partner or the other has absolutely no desire to be with another person BUT enjoys watching their spouse with another person. You need to have an open and frank conversation about what it is that turns each of you on. You may find out that she would love to be the center of attention in a threesome with you and another man but has zero desire to see you with another woman because of jealousy issues. Are you okay with that? It sounds like you are. She may be turned on with it but is concerned with other people finding out. She may be turned on with it but doesn't want to ever make the fantasy a reality or concerned that one or the other of you would not be able to handle it in real life and doesn't want to risk hurting your marriage. She may think you are proposing the idea as a means to getting a "ticket" to be with other women I love the idea of being the other guy
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well if you guys understand each other there is no risk on relstionships.Just make sure that she too gets sexually fully satisfy if you want her to repeat the process.
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I have been sharing my wife with my friend for about 25 years. I guess that makes it okay for us.
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