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by ...... on March 10th, 2008
That maybe he was the one you could grow old with. someone who you thought understood you. your one and only you soul-mate. such beautiful dreams come crashing in sometimes and those we thought were one way turned out to be something else altogether.
by Patti jo on March 10th, 2008
LOL -- I can so relate we call it ' Love ' and then Boom
Great to see you idne -- + 5
by Jodie44 on April 3rd, 2008
HAHAHA. I just saw this question. Without knowing who asked, I thought, "Wow, that sounds exactly like something my friend Jeanne would ask after being subjected to yet another evening of what's-his-name's endless barrage of yakking and jabbering to the air."
And now I see I was right. After all, when you and I voice chat, I hear him in the background, babbling away. You must be one of the most incredibly frustrated people on the planet. {{{HUGS}}}
by MIA on March 19th, 2008
Sweety when you figure that one out let me know so I know what the heck I was thinking!!!! :)
by allikatzpop on March 10th, 2008
idne,you were thinking? maybe your hormones overpowered your brain.....or were you in love w/his hemi cuda? :-O}(i'm sorry i couldnt help it)
by Blink on March 10th, 2008
hahaha maybe he has hundreds of hidden bank accounts and hes really rich
by StewieGriffin on March 10th, 2008
a pretty white dress
by Anonymous on October 9th, 2008
you wanted to get all up in dat rumpshaker!!!
by BeefStew7 on September 13th, 2008
You were thinking, " Permanent sex for life!".
by Chelsea429 on September 13th, 2008
it was a good thing to do at the time?
by chocolate monster has left the building on April 4th, 2008
probably the same as me..lol..marry in haste and all that!
by Andy Is Wicked Married to Penal Colony on April 4th, 2008
I hear you. I would love to be able to claim diminished capacity, but no such luck.
I can only relate what I was thinking: he's sweet, comes from a stable family, handsome, good job, and loves me. What I should have been thinking: I need to get to know him better before I say "I do" and I am too young to be doing this.
Note to self, listen to gut feelings and never use a magic 8 ball to make decisions for you when you're on the fence.
by Ed the Jetpacking Headbanger on March 19th, 2008
I have no idea what most people are thinking when they got married, myself included.
by Simply99 -- Not a fan favorite. on March 10th, 2008
I told that baker I wanted goldedenrod icing, not canary!!! He is so.... arrrrggghhhh, he ruined everything. And what is with this salad??? I demanded romaine, not iceberg!!! Oh, someone is gonna pay!!!!! And the balloons were supposed to be lilac, not lavander!!! Oh, he will be hearing from me!!! And this DJ........
by Oddjob on March 10th, 2008
"Is this really happening?"
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How are you doing idne?
by Little Miss Dangerous on October 9th, 2008
You were thinking it would last forever?
by Rollie on September 13th, 2008
You were thinking you really love and he'll make a good husband once you change him to your liking.
Guess what? You can't change them!!! You have to live with what you marry. Sorry, old wives tale that you can change them.
by xoAdvice on June 20th, 2008
you were in love and needed the money.
just kidding
by Anonymous on April 4th, 2008
Haha. Only a good shrink has any chance of drawing that out of us. It's quite something. We think we understand ourselves but amazingly we do things that when we look back on seem to defy reason. Crazy humans! I like being one of these most interesting creatures.
by Rock Shiner on April 4th, 2008
I wasn't really doing that much thinking when I got married. Most of it was done before I got married. We dated for almost 5 years so there was no denying that we were meant for each other. Now almost 28yrs later I have never regretted that day. Sure we have had more than our share of problems, but they have only made our relationship stronger.
by Anonymous on April 4th, 2008
I imagine you would have been thinking *hey I can make this work*, but since then you obviously realized it actually takes TWO people to make a relationship work. Separations and all things involved with them can be very stressful, so now is a really good time to be taking extra special care of yourself (((hugs)))
by Kizz miazz on April 3rd, 2008
The same stupid thing I must have been thinking!!!!!
by ChandaDiane - est. 1975 on April 3rd, 2008
I hear ya, we must have been taking the same drug...
by sandyyb21 on March 20th, 2008
the same thing we all were dont do it but we were thinking with our heart not our head
by VSPrasad on March 14th, 2008
You are marrying your soul mate.
by Scifisuz on March 13th, 2008
Maybe it was how nice it'd be to have someone in your corner to share your life and whose life you'd be making better too.
It'd be great to come home to someone who'd be interested in your day, celebrates your victories and scorns your enemies; someone to laugh & cry with and someone to tell you you're not so bad when you blow it.
Your "in emergencies please call..." person, someone to drag to all the events you hate to do alone.
Someone to shop for, care for and cuddle with...
Am I close?
by Zack on March 10th, 2008
The same thing I was. I loved her enough to marry her and it was the right thing to do. Not knowing she would fuck me over later.
by girlygirl on March 10th, 2008
You were thinking " what comes on tonight?" j/k You were probably hoping you were making the right choice like most people.
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on March 10th, 2008
The first time or the second?
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on November 14th, 2009
Apparently they can because so far you have acquired 189 points girl. +6
by ethicalbro on November 14th, 2009
You used the wrong head to think with! Better luck next time! Never been there, never will!
by Firebrand on November 14th, 2009
That you would be happy ever after ?
by Jenavave on November 14th, 2009
That you'd get half his stuff if it didnt work out?
by roiboysatx on August 6th, 2009
lol little too late to think about this. you can plead temporary insanity.
by The Trance is the Motion on July 5th, 2009
Wow I have been there. I am on my third marriage. The first I asked that question after 6 months. And the second after 1 month. But in my third marriage we are going on almost a year and i havnt asked that at all. It just feels different. I guess I must be a glutton for punishment, LOL. All i know is if this one doesnt work out I wont do it again.
by ladyshakespeare on July 5th, 2009
I feel ya lady!!! Been married 2 months, and im right here with ya. Why do you suppose they leave stop being a part of the relationship as soon as they get married???
by - M.C.S. - Dave on July 5th, 2009
I am SORRY to say this Idie. But from what I've seen, with many of my FRIENDS. Was that most of them, never took the time. To think hard & long beforehand. About what the consequences, for doing this to soon could mean. Maybe because I've seen so many get hurt by it. Just may be the reason, I stayed single. Don't take me wrong here. Being single, can give one a lot of freedom. But it also can be a lonely life.....I just wish people would take the time, to know the other person first. And to really know what they are doing. When it comes to getting married. I believe it would save alot of broken hearts from happening.....As always, this is just my point of view tho.......Take care Idie my FRIEND;-)............M.C.S.
by Aries RSA on June 25th, 2009
LOL. I think that same thing many times.
by Nice Guy In Bay Area on June 24th, 2009
You were thinking about being happy ever after. You were thinking about how much you loved that man and how he was your knight in shining armor. You were thinking about spending the rest of your life with him and about how much he cared for you. You were thinking about safety, security and not having to play the singles game anymore.
by Laura W. on June 24th, 2009
Hi. I am not an expert in this area, but I found a great website where you can go and talk to a therapist for free. It's FeelBetterNetwork. com and they have free online support groups, free tools, and an Ask An Expert feature, where you can talk to an expert therapist online. Hope this helps you!
by Ditto on June 22nd, 2009
Hahaha! I can't help you, Idne. I think the same thing. Must be a Sagittarius issue.
by philosopher-saint on June 22nd, 2009
You *weren't* thinking!
;-)
by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on June 3rd, 2009
Happy ever after? I see you have awoken.
by Countess Crapula on June 3rd, 2009
You probably ate a British Hamburger that year and got a temporary case of mad cow disease. When he asked you to marry him, you meant to say NO, but you said MOO and he thought you were playing and you got sucked into the hell that is marriage. Ha-ha, just kidding. How bad is it? Are you a girl or a guy?
by CC has lost it on June 3rd, 2009
You were thinking with the head located about 30 some inches below the one on top of your shoulders. It used to swell and turn purple, but it probably doesn't get the chance much any more.
by Sosueme on June 3rd, 2009
I hope she has a trust fund, because we didn't sign a prenup:)
by cornylake23 on June 3rd, 2009
perfect answer divorce dont look bk and learn from ur mistakes lol
by johnnyqwest on October 9th, 2008
you coulda had a v8
by lizizhere on October 9th, 2008
At least I won't get stuck with the bills.
by DreAnna on October 9th, 2008
LOL..Temporary insanity? :)
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Comments
Nope, I never thought any of that. I don't know what I was thinking, but it wasn't that. Thanks.
by unknown on March 10th, 2008
wow idne, did you get nauseous too?
by Countess Crapula on June 3rd, 2009
did I get nauseated when?
by unknown on June 3rd, 2009
forget it I think I got mixed up
by Countess Crapula on June 3rd, 2009