wait and see. you'll figure it out.

Please stop having sex. You are too young for a sexual relationship. Please, wait until you are old enough to handle the consequences of a sexual relationship. You are not even in a relationship with this guy, is that how you want to live? Is giving someone, who is not committed to you, complete access to your body what you really want? What if you catch an incurable disease? Are you prepared to tell everyone you want to have sex with in the future that you have an STD? What if you catch HIV? What if you become pregnant? These are are possibilities--real possibilities.

First, this is the third time you've asked this exact question. If your question isn't answered right away, be patient. This site gets a lot of questions, and not everyone answers every question they see. Rest assured, somebody will answer in time. Now, to the meat of the question. Keep in mind that I'm just giving my opinion as someone who is old enough to be your father... I hate to tell you this, but it's too late. If you had thought about how having sex would have affected your friendship, you wouldn't have needed to ask this question because you wouldn't have done it. But, that's water under the bridge. It's done, and your friendship has suffered, and quite possibly ended, because of it. So what to do? My advice is to talk to him. In fact, it's time to have THE talk. (No, not THAT talk. Your parents should have given you that one...) Ask him, point-blank, "Where do we stand?" Are you still friends? Friends with benefits (though I, personally, think you're still a bit young for that, as your parents undoubtedly do)? Boyfriend/girlfriend? Or did those few minutes of 'fun' ruin what you had? Find out. If you like the answer, great. If not, then he really never was a best friend, and it'll be time to move on with your life. In either case, you'll be okay. It may be hard for a while, but you'll find your path... eventually.

Just talk to him about it directly. I know it will be kind of awkward at first, but everything will be much better once you get everything out in the open. Just tell him that you really like him and you want to know if he feels the same. Even if he says he doesn't, at least you'll know the truth and can move on.

STOP POSTING THIS QUESTION OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

You are a child still and way too young to have sex. have you heard of jail??

You are too young to have a relationship, much less sex. You should probably write this off as your first major mistake and try to go on with your life.

I personally think this situation is very suitable to start a relationship.Being bestfriends for 2 years means you two have experience and knowlage in each other. It is completely normal for two '(best)friends' to have sex.Tell him you like him and you would be very happy to start a relationship with him. When you two start the relationship,do everything with each other.Go to cinema,play games,watch tv,have meals together,have sex(if you would like to),study lessons together(it really helps getting good grades),socalise with other friends and don't be jealous with each other. Treat each other with love,trust and respect.Be supportive to each other.As long as you do the things i stated you shouldn't have a problem. If you two deciede that there will be sex in the relationship,use a condom everytime because you wouldn't want pregnancy or STD at this age. 14 may be young for these things,I know it sounds like an adult thing.But I don't care,you can have no difference than an adult if you do the things I stated. I wish you a happy and problemless relationship in case he accepts your proposal.

Ask yourself questions: 1. Why do I like this guy? 2. Why does he not want to talk about our relationship? Also, If he wants to have sex with you, and not have a relationship than he might be a little selfish, but of course only you would know if that's true. I certainly hope things work out for the two of you!