ANSWERS: 11
  • Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Once that trust is broken once, it's hard (but not impossible) to repair. But he broke that trust twice? What's to stop him from cheating on you again? You're sending him a message that as long as he tells you he cheated, it's okay with you. You may not ever get that trust back 100%. And do you want to be with someone who cheats on you? My advise is to cut him loose. He's only going to cheat on you again.
  • Listen to my words....if he has cheated on you not once, but twice, his two admitted cheatimg times are more like 20! he has got you snowed. he is having his cake and eating it, too. run, don't walk from this person. he is bad news and will continue to make you miserable. remember, run don't walk! if you do not, you have only yourself to blame.
  • You won't. Either accept him and the relationship knowing that he's very likely to cheat again, or move on.
  • Dump him. Once and he might have decided it was a huge mistake and repented. Twice? If you forgive him now you're his doormat, he'll have learned that he can do whatever he wants and you'll forgive him as long as he tells you and says nice things afterwards. You won't be able to trust him. He doesn't deserve your forgiveness. This is part of his character now. Just leave.
  • If you take him back and it happens again.Don't whine and cry about it.
  • Since this is his second time I don't think you can. I'd seriously consider leaving him. If he didn't learn his lesson after the first time I don't think he'll learn it this time. Some people just don't think that being faithful is a big deal and they don't consider the damage it does to the person they cheat on and the one they cheat with.
  • Only you can say whether or not the relationship is worth saving. My Mother used to say fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Simply stated, you turned the other cheek, but you only have 2 cheeks. Unfortunatly it takes more than love to make a relationship. My opinion is once a cheater, always a cheater, but only you can make that call. Good luck.
  • U can not trust him again come on for the second time he will alwalys be a cheater when he has a chance and about the regreting part its all act maybe u to soft on him. He just become a better and professional cheater.
  • If i came to yur house and punched yu in the face, and said i was truley sorry nd then i punched yu in the face again and told yu i am sorry and really regret doing tht...how many times do i have to punch yu in the face till yu realize im NOT sorry?
  • He'll do it again. If you stay with him, just expect it and don't be surprised.
  • He's a serial cheater by default.

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