G'day Curious, Thanks for your question. That is a personal question for you and he. Each couple has its own preferences. Regards

I would think about your question. What should you say? That all depends. What does he say? Do you want to talk during sex, some people don't. Most people that are more sophisticated do have some type of dialog to enhance the act. It's like a play some times, you are actually acting out play time like children do. It's very complex and can satisfy so much more than just the need for sex in it's most primitive form. It doesn't have to be done all the time, mixing it up is so much more fun so it doesn't become routine. So let's go to what you should say. It depends on what part you are doing, foreplay, intercourse, oral, anal... I would ask you first off before anything else what are you thinking. If you are thinking oh that feel so good then say it. If you are thinking I can't wait for this to be over then you have a problem that needs attention. Do you understand what I am saying? It starts with what you are thinking at the time. It's best to communicate with your lover and figure out what's best to do for the both of you, not just one or the other. It's about both of you as everything should be in any relationship. If you are thinking "oh this feels so fucking good I want it harder and faster" then say it. If you are curious and want to know if it feels good for him when you perform fellatio(blow job)then take a second and ask him. Say something like "does that feel good baby or honey", "Do you like the way I suck your cock?" I think you get the idea now. It's a give and take like any conversation. It is a conversation even if the only acknowledgment you get is a grunt or groan.

Men like to be told how good they are and how good they feel. Start just by saying that. Then you can become more descriptive in why you like what he is doing. Then progress to what you want to do to him and finalling what you want him to do to you. Get comfortable with words like cock, pussy, cum, wet, suck etc. Talk to him when you pause while sucking his cock. Descibe how it feels. Good luck.

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tell him to f*** you and you should moan and tell him u want him,my man likes it when i say f*** this pussy and i also say his name.