Should you text/call a girl the night/day after the first date? If so what do you say/type(if you want her to like you and go out again)?
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Call, don't text. Tell her how much you enjoyed the night and ask her if you could go out again. Good Luck :-)
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If you got a good vibe from your first date, then yeah...call her! Tell her the truth, that you enjoyed your date and would like to do it again sometime soon.
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Definitely don't text. She wants to hear your voice, that way she knows that you are being honest. Plus texting a girl that you want date is LAME.
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The rule is supposed to be 3 days. I've never had a problem with a 2 day call. Next day after the first date.... ehhhh everything is situation dependent but that might be too fast for me.
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You should call a girl the afternoon after the first date. Let her know what a great time you had and that you really look forward to seeing her again...soon. Of course this is most effective with 100% sincerity in your voice.
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I'll agree that it's pretty forbidden to text to "get the date" as that shows lack of confidence. But after a first date I see no issues with sending flirtatious texts and working that angle. By this point, you've already hopefully shown confidence by getting #, calling and asking for date, and going out on date with her. Texting is less intrusive, easier to maintain long durations of communication, and can be quite fun. I only start really using the phone once our rapport is to the point that we are speaking intimately with one another. Before that...use phone for setting up dates but use texting for building up sexual tension and keeping yourself in her thoughts throughout the day.
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YES! If you like her and want to see her again, you should definitely call her and tell her so and ask her out again for another specific date. Don't be wishy washy! Honesty is the best policy! http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1139790/in_dating_honesty_is_the_best_policy.html?cat=9 ;) Suzanne
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i do text her and say it was a wondeful evening with her.. and that u'd like to meet again
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Yes. If your date has an issue with it, backs off, or reacts to you doing that then treat it as a red flag.
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dont be a dumbass. Pick up the phone and CALL her. Heres a tip....NEVER ask a woman out via text messaging. It makes you look like a complete tool.
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