G'day Sara that girl, Thank you for your question. No. There's not much I can do about it. It often isn't a wise long term strategy unless they hook a rich guy. Regards

If these guys aren't smart enough to realize that they are being used, more power to her.

Oooh Sara...this subject hits my nerves. YES....IT INFURIATES ME! I've even seen women act dumber than they actually are just to get men to do it for'em...>:( It Makes my blood boil.

Not anymore. I've learned that life is harder for these women when their feminine wiles are no longer available as they get older. The playing field gets leveled.

doesn't bother me at all, babieeeeee. i'm used to seeing women do that. the guy might get to see a boob or two or might get really, really lucky with a booty call.

Ill straddel, stradel, (sp) the fence for you. It doesn't bother me because A)I try not to let much poke me in the eye, and B)I've been the recipient of said feminine wiles. It does however bother me because I think it contributes to the demise of the western civilization. Women want equality yet act dumber than they are to get it??? How does that work?

no, it's not my problem to worry about

YES! YES! YES! But honesly I'm not mad at the girl. I'm mad at the man for being a complete idiot and a total pushover. Grow a pair. The only girls I have ever purchased say a drink for is my mom, my wife, and good female friends. When I was single I adopted the what have you done for me lately attitude. If you want something from me you will have earn it just like I did for the money I'm using to pay for it with.

It irks me, unless I'm that girl, then for some reason it seems ok. But yeah, shame on that guy for being so easily fooled. (And shame on me for batting my eyes so much and giggling.)

Yes it does,and i know some girls that are like that i tell them that they are triflin bitches, and they are too. If the shoe was on the other foot they would not like it.

usually not. i believe that exchange theory rules the roost here. what's good for the goose is good for the gander. in other words, she knows what she's doing, hoping to accomplish something, often, with minimal investment, and he, on the other hand, knows what he's doing, hoping to usually get laid. we each play the cards with which we've dealt. i don't always agree with it or think it's fair, but, both parties know what the potential risks and benefits might be. i think that my ability to maintain objectivity is reduced the closer that person is to me. Seeing my ex-wife use those techniques on other men hurts. Seeing my sister, niece, daughter, for that matter, brother, nephew, son, all tends to break my heart, knowing that they'll likely be crushed. and then, there's what i think for myself. i like a pink panther movie in which steve martin plays inspector jacques cluso (spelling police, help!). the singer, bayonnce (spelling police?) suggests that he come to her apartment about 4 four drinks. the guy who stared in the original french connection is the inspector's partner. when he here's her flirtatious invitation, he says, "it could be a trap". the inspector says, "yes. but, who cares?" sometimes we know what we might be getting ourselves into, but, we throw away all abandon. for those fools who rush in, there's that old saying, "wise men don't need advice and fools won't heed advice."

It doesn't bother me at all, unless I'm the guy the women is using. If you can get something for free, then do it. Doing things for yourself is overrated, getting stuff with no personal work is the best and a lot less stressful. Plus, if the guy is giving her the stuff and is fine with it then why would you be upset, except if you are a little jealous perhaps?....Ha, being sexy rocks.

nope. if the guy falls for it, then it's on him.

Yes it does,I have had someone try to play it on me,and they get upset when you dont let them play you,on the contrary men who allow them to do that are not thinking logicly either.

Yes but i feel sorry for the guys who do thinking the women is interested in them not what they are getting for them

yes very much .what if the man really cares for her and he finds out later that the only reason she played up to him was o get what she wanted.i'm sure she would have expressed her feelings towards him which would al be a pack of lies.when she got what she wanted she will drop him like a bad habbit.its like sticking a knife into his heart.but hes hould have seen it coming

Yea...Nothing is for free....What goes around comes around.

well if the guy can't see he is being used then go for it. most men i think know though and its like an even trade for them. i wouldn't think much of the girl but men use girls too, so i guess its even.

There is nothing that is free but that which is given by God and that which is given from one to others at the behest and in the name of God. Playing the ditz is a way of lowering and disgracing one's self which is not in the will of God. Likewise, lowering ones spiritual needs to accomodate work not to one's spiritual direction, rather to accomodate pursuits like greed, (which brings one money, a likely pursuit of the ditzes, from a man) is also not to glorify God's grace. Love among others (romantic, familial, phila...what's the word..) is to glorify God. One's pursuit of love and spiritual path glorifies God. No one is perfect, hence God's forgiveness, so we are allowed an imperfect path. But conscious non-adherence toward skewed and thoughtless ends is never "free". Rather it erodes our personalities, it erodes our fortitude and degrades our faith in ourselves and thereby our faith in God. Nothing is free but the love we give and are blessed to give, and the eternal that is Given. Feel sorry for those whom you think receive any freebies to the detriment of their be-ings and pray for their at-one-ment as it will achieve them nothing.

Yes when I se my son get ripped off . Hurts me!