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by Freddy Says remove all moderation points on February 9th, 2008

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In heterosexual porn films the great majority of the shots are of the man's penis entering various female orifices. We see one or more male ejaculations in explicit and exaggerated detail. How can the men enjoying watching this be wholly heterosexual?

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  • by The Special One on March 5th, 2008

    The Special One

    You could twist it the other way - if someone gets so uncomfortable watching a man, does that not make him at least a little insecure with his own sexuality? And where do you draw the line? Sports contain incredibly toned men getting pretty handsy with one another.

    Don't get me wrong, the penis-close-ups are not my favorite parts; I don't go and freeze frame them, but I don't mind it - it's part of the act.
    As far as the money shots go, holy crap it's so damn hilarious. It's like in Shakespearian plays, there's always comic relief. That's right, I just drew a comparison between Shakespeare and hardcore pornography.

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  • by Jane on March 4th, 2008

    Jane

    they pretend like its them. Just like when i watch the women they totally turn me on and i am 100% straight, its just kinda how things work.

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  • by Malikitts on February 11th, 2008

    Malikitts

    I wondered too, a male friend informed me it was so that the man could picture it as his own penis entering the various places

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  • by MargaretMcGhee on February 9th, 2008

    MargaretMcGhee

    Ihave womdered about this too. But, the "cum shot" is some kind of verification that the sex was for real.

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  • by Timjon on March 21st, 2009

    Timjon

    From the viewpoint of a man who was once addicted to porn, all I can say is that when you see the porn, it gives you a certain "rush" or "high." It becomes like a drug that you can never get enough of and always want to have it more and more explicit. Just as some take drugs or alcohol and don't have a problem with it, some do. I also had a problem with drugs and alcohol as well. Some people just have the propensity to have these kind of addictions that according to alot of research are chemically induced in the brain. Those who are not tormented with these kind of addiction really cannot understand. They have no real standard of comparison. It is why only an alcoholic can truly understand another alcoholic or why only a porn addict can only identify with another porn addict and not be understood by society in general.
    It's not simply you see just a penis or a vagina and if you like one or the other you are a homo or a hetero. It's the whole damn movie--it creates an excitement, an arousal, a chemical high that you want more and more of until you climax and get a "temporary stay" as they say in the legal profession. I hope all who read this gain a little bit more understanding and compassion toward those who have this problem.
    Porn practically ruined my life--it affected my marriage, my work, my relationship with God and my family. Trust me a porn addict is not happy--he is miserable. He is trapped in this flesh and blood body and literally enslaved to do what it wants. It is almost like one loses all control. Thank God I was able to overcome that entrapment. Without returning to the God who loved me and set me free, I would be dead today.

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  • by denidowi on January 4th, 2009

    denidowi

    Well, that's probably a fair Q there, Freddy.
    It seems to me that what actually happens in the overall sexual engagement is that in the pre or even foreplay stage, the attention is all on the beauty of the female form, and a dance or stretch out by her would do it nicely, thank you very much.
    Basically SHE is facilitating him, and inspiring him to great sexual heights [which is physically displayed by his hard on erection].
    But the male organ then becomes the dominating, demanding feature in the show once she has raised him.
    So although the girl's role of facilitation does not actually change, the visual focus and attention shifts to the demanding feature of the show - his powerful penis.
    For me, the part the hetero enjoys seeing is her; but he would also enjoy seeing that the girl has brought him to some fruition and has satisfied her part in completing his act for him.
    Obviously, I am just dealing here with the male satisfaction, which was the topic you were addressing.
    In reality, of course, the girl needs as much pleasure and satisfaction as she is capable of also.

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  • by nzguy.. on March 16th, 2009

    nzguy..

    When I watch porn I usually do a running commentry like they do for football players.

    He dribbles, he's dribbling and now he shoots!!
    Goal!!

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  • by qwertyyy on October 24th, 2011

    qwertyyy

    I was wondering why they always try to hide the guy in the porn, because men should imagine that he is them. And you don't like sex between a man and a woman, but woman fucked with anything. This is so gay, and with your question you are even more gay.

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