How do i get over the wanting of a threesome with my wife and another women or man

Hiya!

Why do you want to get over it??? Why don't you explain to your wife how you feel and see if she is receptive to the experience...

Hope this helps!
Dawn

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If she's against the idea, then you could perhaps get some DVDs and masturbate instead. If you haven't asked her yet, maybe it's time you did - in a very non-threatening and romantic way. You might find out she's secretly hoping you'll ask her.

Get some DVD's and tell her it turns you on...talk about it....explain to her it is your dream...failing that dump her for one who will, she is too frigid...if you cannot face/afford to trade her in, get along to a swingers club or answer one of the millions of ads online....as a final alternative..ask her to bring home Matthew Jennings from the Garage... he has been banging her for months...

You could have that threesome. If that is out of the question, work on fulfillinf some other fantasies with your wife. That will take you mind off of this one.

add toy to the your sex life and use them like a threesome..

My soon to be wife and girlfriend of seven years told me of a threesome she had JUST before we met. Initially I assumed it was with another girl and guy, boy was I suprised when she said it was with two guys. Strangely...I was instantly turned and have been ever since. We actually have discussed having an MFM threesome several times. Intact one new years eve about four years ago after partying around town with my buddies, her and I head back to my place and get in the hottub where she proceeds to tell me she was hoping to have a threeway with me and one of my buddies. Once again.....wayyyy turned on. Since then she has seemed to loose interest and it bothers me that I still find this really hot and wouldn't mind exploring it more. At the same time I just want to be over the fantasy and on with our soon to be married lives. Ughh....what to do!?

If you're anything like me you DON'T "get over" it ! My wife and I have been together a little over 12 years now - we've been married nearly 6 of those years - we've TALKED about my fantasy of doing a threesome with her and another guy for TEN of those years - and it hasn't happened YET ! She does "simulate" it for me ( using her dildo ) and we BOTH enjoy the "simulation" ( although it sure doesn't SATISFY the desire - it only VENTS the desire temporarily ! ) and I remain ever HOPEFUL she'll decide to fulfill the fantasy some day ! I'll NEVER "get over the WANTING" !

I also have this problem and I don't get over it but I accept that it would never happen and if it did it could destroy our happy marriage forever.