If it's with someone you know well, then just tell them straight what you want, the best relationships start with friendship. if you just mean how to get someone, then don't go to bars, go to college or church or the library, because relationships that start in bars usually end there too.

If it's with someone you know well, then just tell them straight what you want, the best relationships start with friendship. if you just mean how to get someone, then don't go to bars, go to college or church or the library, because relationships that start in bars usually end there too.

The process isn't really complicated, it's just hard to come up with the courage sometimes. 1. Pick someone you're attracted to. 2. Let them know that you're interested in them, that you think they're special. 3. See if they show any signs of interest in return. If not, return to step 1. 4. Let them know that you want to spend time with them. Tradition says "ask for a date", but that's not the only way. Anything that allows you to get to know each other better is a good activity. 5. Spend a lot of time with them. Keep finding ways to remind them that they are special in your life. Find things you enjoy doing together. 6. If it all goes to Hell, return to step 1. Repeat the process until it stops going to Hell. 7. Marry the person. After a few years, if it's gone to Hell anyway, come back to Answerbag and post some details about your situation and we'll see what we can do.

I believe that if the chemistry is there, it will all fall into place naturally.

My best advice? Be yourself, find out if you have any common interests,build a foundation on friendship,trust and respect. Take it slow and keep it simple. I'll keep you in my thoughts. :D

Amen on the advice about not meeting women in bars. All you'll meet is women with serious problems!!!!

its simple. just get to know them by going up to them and introduce yourself. trust me, i know its harder then it sounds sometimes. if she ignores u or walks away, then most of the time it means she probably doesnt like u like that. So if that happens, just keep trying untill u find someone who feels the same way about u!

It's quite simple, though some people lack the confidence, let me tell you, women are attracted to self confidence, but not arrogance. You just need to talk to her like she is a friend, while at the same time try to express your interest in her, don't try anything sleazy, compliment her on aspects that stand out to you. (Preferably not her breasts) Even if it's something you may think is silly, it is still appreciated.

go the friend route first comunication is the key to every relation ship. but focus on talking about actual topics like art music or hobbies. do not and i repeat do not talk about yourself at all selfcentered people have bad relationships. if you can make them laugh and not by telling jokes you're on your way. after that it's all the body language i.e. touch on the hand, hug lasting longer than 3 sec, looking them in the eyes. and eventually the relation ship will blossom. after all actions apeak louder than words.

Starting a new relationship is often like traveling on un-charted territory. You are not sure at all what to expect, yet you feel excited and hopeful that it will work out in the end. In case you feel anxious about meeting someone new and dating that person, keep in mind the following tips: 1. Present yourself as a confident person. Your date is more likely to be impressed with you if you present yourself as a confident person. Confidence is evident in how you talk, how you dress, and how you act on a date. Try to be as calm and natural as possible, and if you get nervous take a few deep, quiet breaths and think positive thoughts about you. 2. Use discretion as you get to know your new date. Use discretion in your conversation with your new friend. If you are at least half way “normal” you will know what is socially acceptable to talk about with your new date 3.Show how interest in your new sweetheart. Show interest in your new sweetheart by asking him or her about any special interests, hobbies, or vocation. You might also ask your date more about where he or she grew up, or where he or she attended grade school, high school, or college. 4. Do not “rush” the relationship. Try to have fun and learn as much as possible about the person you have started a new relationship before “getting too serious”. For instance, it may be wise to wait at least a couple of months before deciding if you love a person, and to wait even longer before deciding to be married to that person. 5. Be honest with yourself and your partner. As you get to know a person and that person gets to know you, it is important to be honest. Do not present your self as someone you are not to please your partner, and also beware of any signs that your partner is not trustworthy or honest. You cannot expect perfection but you also do not want to live a lie.

I think that if you know them even a little bit I think you should go for it but first establish a good friendship unless they flirt then just find some way to ask them out like if you are starting to fail in a subject then go ask them when they can tutor you you can turn on some music that says how you feel about them but be sure that it isn't anything like rock that will just make them mad because music affects mood.