First thing is to establish who is dominate and who is submissive and if the roles can be reversed. Decide on which role suits you best. Then you have a basis for your act. Which it is, it's like play acting and part of the fun. Your role is the seductress. Is it as a Dominatrix or the submissive demure person or the totally submissive slave girl. maybe the hooker type or slutty/whore type. Or some type of mixture. Now once you have established your role you have to make a play, it's like drawing up a play for sports or a scene from a movie or show. You know his habits and what he likes, have you been paying attention to him? In other words have you noticed if he gets a rise out of some clothing you wear? Does he pay attention to your feet? Do you have big boobs or a tight little butt that he enjoys? Knowing those little things about him is the key. By knowing what turns him on you accentuate those things and tease him with them. For instance if he loves getting head, by starting the process and stopping just when he thinks it's going to happen leads to anticipation, you have to know when to do it so that it doesn't lead to frustration. Things like doing a belly dance, putting on a show with disco lights and dancing as you undress. Setting a truly romantic mood with great music, candles, incense with you dressed in something from Victoria secret. Be creative and also be observant. Maybe he likes you in high heeled boots and a leather biker jacket? Set the mood, set the scene, dress for the part and let go of any inhibitions you and him might have. Then let the play unfold. Work on some new techniques you might have read about. An easy way is to be home when he's on his way and have him call you. Then talk to him while he's on the phone. Tell him that your pussy is very wet thinking about his cock and you need it right now. You need to taste him and then you need him inside you. Tell him how hard your nipples are and that you are pinching them and rubbing your clit as the juices are flowing down your legs in anticipation of him coming home to fuck you. If he doesn't respond to that I'm sure there are a few million men who will.