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You need to take part in the whole proceeding. Trust me on this. Don't take anything for granted.
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Don't let the proceeding happen without you. If you can have your own lawyer it would be great. The only way someone could ask you not to attend the proceedings is under advise of his lawyer. In another words his lawyer knows that if you are not there it will be very easy to finish and complete the proceedings probably in only one day. But then if things happen to your disadvantage, how are you going to seek remedy?
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You had better be involved or you are going to get screwed over!
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You have to go - if you don't your soon-to-be-ex can ram any number of issues through the courts without your knowledge - and there is very little you can do about it. And anything you can do will cost you thousands more than just taking an attorney of your own and going now. royal77 is right, the only reason I can think of to not want you there is so he can screw you over in court. Even if his intentions are good, it's only smart to look out for your own interests. Presumably there is a reason you are divorcing, and it's not a good idea to assume that you and your needs are his top priority - no matter how amiable the proceedings have been.
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You absolutely should go or he can win by default and get everything! Don't believe him you have to do it on your own now and make your own decisions.Don't go with him to the lawyers because they will tell you anything to get away with what they want to accomplish, wether it be custody, the house, car, alimony so they can have everything and leave you nothing. I am appealing my divorce and boy did I have to study! Don't believe him! Good Luck!~ Sister Rock
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GO TO EVERYTHING!!!!! If your ex is anything like mine, you will be finding papers signed and served on you for whatever he wants! If you don't go, its essentially saying that you agree to whatever he wants!! Please, for your own sake, GO to the lawyer and especially to court!
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If you have already agreed to and BOTH of you have signed ALL papers you don't have to go. my divorce was uncontested and my ex didn't show all that happened eas the judge and my lawyer and myself went to chambers judge asked if I agreed with papers I said yes he signed. If at all possible go to be safe though.
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