18 and 4 weeks pregnant, not too sure what to do, please help... not too suportive of abortions...
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You basically have two choices: 1.) Have the kid. 2.) Don't have (i.e.; abort) the kid. If you choose to have the kid, you again have two choices: 1.) Keep the kid, 2.) Put it up for adoption. Is the father of the child going to help raise the kid? What's in the baby's best interest? These are the sorts of questions you should ask yourself.
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Go to a doctor and get some prenatal care. They can tell you about your options, and they will not judge you. This is a hard decision, but in the end you and the father, if he is involved, are the ones to make it.
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i think i want to keep the baby, and the father is amazing, my age, and is going to support me in anyway he can. I;m going to the doctors next week, but i'm just so scared...
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Have the baby and raise him or her then. Age isn't the big issue with me, I was 21 when I had my first and out of wedlock. My son is amazing! It's how well do you think that YOU can take care of this little life.
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You could have the baby adopted out or you can keep the baby and raise him/her and love him/her.
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If you want the baby then by all means keep him/her! I was still 17 when I HAD my son. I wouldn't trade it for the world. I did not have the fathers help though and did it on my own. It was frustrating but its well worth it. There is help if you need it, but from your answer it seems as if you have support so go for it and have a happy family!
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I was 18 when I got pregnant with my son & I kept him. Best choice I could've ever made for myself. His father & I were on again & off again through out my pregnancy & after I had my son. Abortion was never thought of in my eyes, I wanted my child no matter what & I knew that who better to grow with my child & raise him then his mother. His father never wanted to grow up but I had to for my sons sake & because I did & it saved my life more times then I could mention. I'm not going to lie, it was hard at times & things sometimes got a lil rough but we made it through it. His dad had some great times with him before he passed away, he tried & my son loved him dearly for it. I never kept him from his daddy but his drinking & partying did that . I had a great family that made up for what time his father didn't & I love that boy more then anything & when they have love they don't miss what they don't have. Good luck with what ever you decide.
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hey, i am 19 i had my first at 18... i told my mom right away... but waited 5 months till i told my dad... they where understandin... guess wut im pregnant again... i dont know what to do either..... in your situation, if you cant afford it the government can help ,,, thats what i did .. you can get on medicaid and they will pay for everything... just let me tell you i dont regret it.... you can do it,,,,
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do you want to have a baby now, or not? (and it's OK to say 'no').
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I am keeping the baby.. I'm getting excited.. everyone is so supportive of this. The daddy is also excited. The only thing I'm worrying about right now is miscarrying..
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My husband and I have been looking and looking for a baby we can give a beautiful home and wonderful life to. Please write... Amy Amylynx@juno.com
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I would not suggest abortion to anyone, in my neighborhood alone there are 3 couples whom would love to adopt. They do not want to have their hopes smashed by going though the states because it is hard. And have enough money to raise a child however not as much as it costs to adopt privately. However, I hear there are other ways to do so. Talk to friends, family, churches etc...My husband and I have been wanting to adopt also...Pls thnk about it...Good Luck...
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well there are some choices im not supportive of abortion either. you could have the baby and put he or she up for adoption. you could have the baby and keep it if you think ur able to care for it .. if the babys dad is in the picture he could help out if not you should try to talk to him about it . im sure you will be ok :)
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