How Important is Relationship History? When you start approaching relationship status with someone, how important is it to know the other person's relationship history? How much of their history is important to know? Why?
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It's neither irrelevant nor all-important: people are likely to repeat the past in their relationships, but this isn't always the case -- we do change over time, and we're each different with different partners. But certainly if there's a recognizable pattern (i.e. he always falls for insecure girls and then dumps them when he gets bored) that's worth being aware of and addressing consciously.
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quite important actually. its a good indicator of what kind of person he/she might be.
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Not important at all. If they are well adjusted, it isn't an issue. In my experience, people who demand to know someone's romantic history are looking for ammunition. You'll never be able to please that person. And, anyone who insists on spewing their history either isn't ready for a new relationship, or they're a professional victim - too high maintenance!
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