I'm actually electing to withhold my most embarrassing because it is also the most taboo, but my second would be a fetish for simply white, cotton panties and a short skirt. That is just my biggest thing...well, second.

heat... from hairdryers to registers.. even air conditioning units outside. The warm air blowing down there turns me on.

getting peed on and then licking the vagina. I love a vagina that has the smell of urine

A woman smoking . Not just any woman, she has to be somewhat attractive . A woman smoking while I give her oral sex is the most embarrassing fetish I have . I must admit that most of these answers, including mine are more aimed at what turns us on not so much our fetishes . As I understand it a "true fetish " is something that you MUST have in order to perform/enjoy sex . I can perform sexually without a woman smoking , but it sure gets me going !

Crucifixion. Preferably of a willing woman, but even having myself stretched out works wonders.

Not necessarily a fetish as I don't get to do this too often, but it turned out to be a totally unexpected turn-on... One morning, a female friend of mine inseted a tampon up my ass and made me wear it all day. It was such a wild feeling! As a result of my liking this, she made me buy a box (the embarrassing part) to keep in my bathroom and every now and then, she will call me out of the blue and instruct me to insert one. I'm not allowed to remove it until she says so.

Having a g.f. or female friend shrink so I can sneak her around with me at school and work, fondle her in my hand if she's cool with it, massage her and kiss her etc. etc. and then slide her into my pants just before a big presentation, meeting, or while driving home etc. It'd be fun to play like that for a bit....

I get instantly hard when a woman puts her tongue in my ear. Even more embarassing than that, I want a girl to stick her finger in my anus, but no one's ever done that. I would like to stick my finger in a woman's anus as well, but have never done so. Hmmm, what else? Having a woman pee on me - on my face or on my genitals - would be a turn on. But I'd want to do it in the shower and rinse off fairly quickly after. Or here's something really embarassing - I like to be examined by my female dermatologist. I told her I had spent some time naked in sun/water and had a spot on my penis, just so she'd do a full exam this time! She held my penis in her hand and examined it, said the spot was simply a freckle.

I know this one is unusual and I have only done it several times, and that was years ago, when I was an exotic dancer. One of my regulars in the Boston area was quite a wealthy man. He explained that he was having a special dinner party and wanted me to participate. Before the guests arrived, I was stretched out naked but for a small mask over my eyes and a very tiny thong on a very large dining room table and made up with flowers and some of the food into a 'living centerpiece.' Seven couples were seated around me, eating and talking as usual, many commenting about my shape, especially my large nipples, which were puffy and erect and exposed the whole time. I often felt a hand or fork slide across my skin and fingers prodding and poking me. After the meal, the guests retired to the living room while the staff cleaned me up. They lathered me with baby oil, keeping the mask on, and led me with a light chain into the room, where I was stretched on a large pillow, held down with my arms and legs spread apart. Many of the guests massaged and touched me until finally the room was silent and one of the male guests was brought over to me. He entered me and just before coming he stood up above my chest and one of the woman guests masturbated him. The man and woman had been selected by lottery--their car keys were placed in a platter and one of the maids selected them randomly. After I left, I heard that the guests had more entertainment, but I do not know what that was. The pay was amazing--more than I could earn in a month of stripping. The same man brought me to ten or twelve more parties just like it around the wealthiest homes and suburbs around Boston. He moved away and I never heard from him again. This was a fantasy fulfilled for me! I would like to experience this again but I would create an elaborate plot and theme. I've set up scenarios for my friends but since I am married I no longer personally participate but sometimes am able to watch. I love sexual scenarios...creating them, participating in them. I don't know what this is called? Role Playing?

Golden and brown showers, I think because they are considered taboo. They are a fetish I have had for ages, but feel I shouldn't have - like they are 'wrong'.

For me... shaving. I'm not embarrassed by shaving my whole pubic area, I think that society has come to terms with the clean shaven look being acceptable. I mean shaving my body. Except for my eyebrows and head, every other hair on my body must be tied into the pleasure center in my brain. I love the feeling of smooth skin from my arms and armpits, to my legs and toes. I don't do it often, but when I do I get so hot. The downside, I spend the next few months trying to hide my legs and arms until the hair grows back entirely. I'm not embarrassed that I enjoy it, moreso, I'm embarrassed at constantly noticing when people realize my legs are bare, and the wierd look that plasters their faces. Shaving is so sexy, as is waxing. If only people whould lighten up a little...

being out in a top notch bar and having the girl im with go to the toilet and top my drink up with her pee.

a woman with a Dick