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  • ...gap. Even IRL I really go for older men. My last bf was 27. Btw, the guy I'm talking about lives in a different continent, he doesn't speak my language but we have the same ethnicity.. His family just migrated there and he was born and raised there. He said he'll fly out here to see me in 3 months. We've talked about how we feel for each other and how weird it is and stuff. Lol. We aren't committed to each other tho. And we discussed that it's okay for us to see other ppl and just be honest with each other. But I'm not seeing anyone and so is he.. well he dated a couple of times but that's it. And I was cool with it. We agreed to keep what we have right now (not well defined actually.. ) the way it is. Like we're stuck. We can't go any further until we meet in person. I don't really know why I'm writing this here. Lol. uhmm.. I just want your opinion... What can you say abt this.. about what we have, about our situation.. and as far as you could tell... what are we? What do we have..?
  • oh dear me... I've done this (twice now!), the first one was doomed anyway because we were 4000 miles apart! The second one... I've not met him yet and although I haven't told him in so many words, I do have very strong feelings for him, and more real than ever before. I think you'll know, when you meet, what you have to do. All your o/l feelings will either come flooding to the fore, or they'll sink without trace. That's a truth you've got to face, but you've talked about it. What I am intrigued about is - how do you communicate of you don't speak the same language? You sound as though you've got it together in your head quite well, and I would just hang on until you see how it pans out. Good luck!
  • i have a similar problem, i'm in love with a guy who's actually three years younger than me, i met him online(IMVU)we now talk on other sites, and are in love we agreed to meet each other in two years, but i'm a little worried,i love him with all my heart, and i don't mind the age, but i'm still scared to meet him we're engaged after knowing each other for about 6 months and talking to each other every day i really think it'd be good for you to meet him, and see what he's like if you still feel strongly for him, go for it ^.^ if not, try to stay friends i don't know if that helps, but please, tell how it goes
  • All I can say is that you should be very, very careful.
  • don't let age be a factor, i'm 19 and i really like a 28year old and i think he really likes me. just see where it goes..you only live once.
  • This must be very common, I also have met a guy online, I have never met him in person and we are so in love. I found your question because I did a search to see how it has turned out with other people that have had online relationships. We live in different states and we are making plans to meet, I am extremely nervous about meeting him but that's the only way to be sure. Oh and I am 10 years older than him lol. But were both over 21 so no problem there.
  • Sweetie, You could be around the corner from eachother, and 'be in love'. Be Very cardful. Insist on meeting in a public place. and don't go alone....Failing that... Watch the News....Please take care simon london/ xx
  • we had the almost situation gurl... im only 1 nand i fell in love with the gut ive met just via online and we never me yet...... and now he really invest me a lot just to get me here going to US but so bad i got denied twice should im going to be afaraid of with this?

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