ok... so now you've got the pussy-licking down... =) It'll be messy the first time. Bound to be. Over-excited, clumsy, nervous, all of that. So get that one over with! The SECOND time - well! No really... Take your time... as with the other thing, you need time to relax and enjoy it. To know what you like, the sensation of being touched in places you've never been touched before. Be comfortable, warm, safe, secure. Are you happy getting undressed at this stage? Or do you want to wait a while? No hurry... Create a good atmosphere for you both - lighting's important, you don't want to feel like you're under a spotlight! Candles are always good. Unless this is going to be "I'm going to ravage you now" kind of scenario, start with stroking. Just light touches all over the body that you can both do to each other, to get the feel of each other. Then you'll find out if either one is ticklish! Move onto embraces, where you hold each other closely, kissing the neck and shoulders, and the face, and then it should natually progress from there to move instictive moves. You may feel a certain urgency at this point, but don't forget protection. Be responsible for it. Don't expect her to be on the pill. God forbid anything should spoil your first time. OK? Enjoy!

If your nervous and stalling cause your not too sure about it, just do it then it only gets better and better. My friends 19 and never had sex, thats too long.

You're more than likey not to orgasm the first time. Instead, its quite painful. Only ever do it if you feel sure you want to, not because you're pressured into doing it. After that, it just keeps getting better and better (: