What do you do when a good friend abandons you?
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Realise that they weren't such a good friend after all.
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This has happened to me and it HURTS! I tried talking to the person and they lied straight to my face. I am at the point now where I realize I just have to get over it and move on. This person has started being friends with only people that do things for her and since my family is going through a rough time right now, she must assume I have nothing to offer her. It still hurts though!
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I would be very hurt and ask why.
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find a friend that will love you forever
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You just pick yourself up, dust yourself off and go on !! I've had MANY MANY Acquaintances over the years in my life,but, I've only got one REAL friend ( Other than my wife.) People are fickle and wishy washy and will be your old good buddy one day and the next they would'nt even spit on you to put you out if you were on fire !! That's just the way it is !! I've had ONE real friend since first grade and he's always been a real friend. Actually he's more like the brother I never had. I feel that if you have even one REAL friend in your lifetime, you should consider yourself blessed !
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Realize that they must not have been such a good friend after all..and move on.
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Chalk it up as a lesson learned about that person, and move on. It may suck now but it's better to know who your true friends on sooner rather than later.
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i start calling them something else other than "good" friend.
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I've had the same experience, just recently in fact. The way I see it is that even if a friend was 'real' at one time in your life, it may not always be that way. Even the oldest closest friends can sometimes grow apart or move in different directions in their lives. It can be very messy and painful, as there are often hurt feelings on one or both sides. All you can do is understand the change and where you are in your lives, appreciate their past friendship and move on. By all means let them know you're disappointed if that's important to you, but resist the urge to blast them with a list of their wrongdoings.
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I get sad, angry and find a new friend.
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i hide stretched out near the ceiling waiting for my pray to enter their bedroom
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